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2007-01-10 15:30:10 · 15 answers · asked by DENNISM 1 in Social Science Gender Studies

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Be a human being interacting with another human being. You get what you look for--if you're just out to get laid, all your going to find are one night stands. That doesn't mean that you have to be celibate. However, in my experience the best relationships are the ones where sex is an accent, not the main feature.

And, as others have said, be yourself. It's so obvious when people are being fake; the only people it fools are other posers. Your facade will crumble sooner or later the more you and your partner know each other.

Be patient with yourself; it's not a race or a game. Quantity is no substitute for quality. When you're single, take the time to improve yourself and become the person you want to be. The happier you are, the more attractive you'll be.

Finally, and this is just my opinion, avoid the bar scene. It's always struck me as a place of desperation. Cultivate your hobbies and interests; get involved in something that interests you that also involves other people, such as volunteering or whatever spiritual community you may be a part of. You'll find women there who have similar interests, which increases the chances of a healthy relationship.

Good luck!

2007-01-10 15:42:20 · answer #1 · answered by Lupa 4 · 2 0

The best way to attract a woman are, having your proper hygiene, invite her to have date on a romantic place such as, sunset view. another way is be gentleman to her, help her on her problems, or inshort be nice to her, thats the best way to attract a woman>

2007-01-10 15:39:55 · answer #2 · answered by lucky 1 · 0 0

There isnt one way.

Things that help are. A clean cut look, good hygeine, dressing well, confidence, and a sense of humour. Also having excellent listening skills is key. Money and intelligence helps with older women.

2007-01-10 15:37:58 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

be funny. make sure it doesnt look intentional. walk tall, with your head held high. you want to look like a smart, successful man. LOL. just be yourself. be sweet.

no matter what, be confident. Confidence is the best thing you can do. Even if your the shyest person ever, act like your totally confident and NEVER show your shyness.

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2007-01-10 15:35:29 · answer #4 · answered by madeeymoomoo 1 · 1 0

-have a sense of humor
-treat them well and be a gentlemen
-smell GOOD (old spice is definitely alluring!)
-be well kept...you don't have to be the hottest guy of the bunch as long as you're not messy
-but most of all, be respectful and don't treat women as 'objects'.
treat her as your best friend, and don't try to get some action. That's a big turnoff to many women and there's too many guys like that in this world.

2007-01-10 15:36:17 · answer #5 · answered by bree 3 · 3 0

This one's for "Baba Yaga":
Born only just a few minutes ago, weren't you?

"Baba Yaga
Member since: January 10, 2007"

HAHA! Happy Bullet CAN'T take the HEAT!

FREUDIAN DEFINTION of "Projection"; Made to Order for Happy Bullet!

Freudian Projection

The following is a collection of definitions of projection from orthodox psychology texts. In this system the distinct mechanism of projecting own unconscious or undesirable characteristics onto an opponent is called Freudian Projection.

"A defense mechanism in which the individual attributes to other people impulses and traits that he himself has but cannot accept. It is especially likely to occur when the person lacks insight into his own impulses and traits."

"The externalisation of internal unconscious wishes, desires or emotions on to other people. So, for example, someone who feels subconsciously that they have a powerful latent homosexual drive may not acknowledge this consciously, but it may show in their readiness to suspect others of being homosexual."

"Attributing one's own undesirable traits to other people or agencies, e.g., an aggressive man accuses other people of being hostile."

"The individual perceives in others the motive he denies having himself. Thus the cheat is sure that everyone else is dishonest. The would-be adulterer accuses his wife of infidelity."

"People attribute their own undesirable traits onto others. An individual who unconsciously recognises his or her aggressive tendencies may then see other people acting in an excessively aggressive way."

"Projection is the opposite defence mechanism to identification. We project our own unpleasant feelings onto someone else and blame them for having thoughts that we really have."

An individual who possesses malicious characteristics, but who is unwilling to perceive himself as a protagonist, convinces himself that his opponent feels and would act the same way."

2007-01-10 16:50:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Be 1. Charasmatic. 2. Handsome, 3. Wealthy.

All three and you will always have success. Add famous and you won't ever need to spend a night alone again!

2007-01-10 15:36:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 2

just relax and be yourself.......and the number one thing that a woman wants, in my opinion, from a man....a man that will listen to her, talk with her, be able to communicate well with, and have fun.

2007-01-10 15:35:47 · answer #8 · answered by jackie_in_wv 4 · 0 0

long answer:


1. When she asks how she looks, shrug and say "Could be better." This will keep her on her toes, and girls love that.

2. Never hold her hand. This can be interpreted as a sign of weakness.
(Or--if she grabs your hand, squeeze hers really really hard until she cries. This will impress her by showing her what a strong man you are)

3. Once a month sneak up on her from behind and knock her over. Girls are like dogs. They love to be roughed up.

4. Call her in the middle of the night to ask if she's sleeping. If she is say "You better be." Repeat this 4 or 5 times until morning. This will show her you care.

5. When she is upset about something, suggest to her that it might be her fault. This will pave the way for her own personal improvement, and every girl needs some improvement.

6. Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most. Then--when she's sleeping, steal all her small things and break them. Because jewelry is for wussies.

7. If you're talking to another girl, make sure shes looking. When she is, stare into her eyes mouth the words "F*ck you" and grab the other girls ***.
Girls love competition.

8. Tell her you're taking her out to dinner. Drive for miles so she thinks it's going to be really special. Then take her to a burning tire yard. When she starts to get upset tell her you were just kidding and now you're really going to take her to dinner. Then drive her home. When she starts crying and asks why you would do something like that lean over and whisper very quietly into her ear "...because I can."

9. Introduce her to your friends as "some chick." Women love those special nicknames.

10. Play with her hair. Play with it HARD.

11. Warm she up when shes cold...and not by giving her your jacket... then you might get cold. Rather, look her in the eye and say "If you don't stop bitching about the cold right now you're going to be bitching about a black eye." The best way to get warm is with fear.

12. Take her to a party. When you get there she'll have to go to the bathroom (they always do). Leave immediately. Come back right when the parties dying and yell at her the whole way home for ditching you at the party.

13. Make her laugh. A good way to do this is if she has a small pet...kick the pet. I always find stuff like that funny. Why shouldn't girls?

14. Let her fall asleep in your arms. When she's fast asleep, wait 10 minutes then JUMP UP AND SCREAM IN HER EAR! Repeat until she goes home and you can use your arms for more important things...like basketball.

15. Spit often. I hear girls like guys that spit.

16. If you care about her never ever tell her. This will only give her self confidence. Then you can never turn her into the object she deep down desires to be.

17. Every time youre in her house steal one of the following: shoes, earrings, or anything else that comes in pairs. Only take one of the pair.
This way she'll go crazy.

18. Take her out to dinner. Right when shes about to order interrupt and say "No, shes not hungry." Make her watch you eat. Girls love a guy that speaks for her.

19. Look her in the eyes and smile...then clock her one. Girls love a spontaneous guy.

20. Give her one of your t-shirts......and make sure it has your smell on it. But not a sexy cologne smell...a bad smell. You know what Im talking about.

21. When its raining keep asking her if shes crying. She'll say "No, its just the rain." Ten minutes later turn to her and just scream "Stop crying you f*cking baby!" Girls like a tough man as I've already stated.

22. Titty twisters...and plenty of them.

23. If you're listening to music and she asks to hear it, tell her no. This way she'll think you're mysterious.

24. Two words...Dutch oven.

25. Remember her birthday but don't get her anything. Teach her material objects arent important. The only thing thats important is that she keeps you happy. And your happiness is the greatest present she can ever get.

26. If shes mad at you for not calling her when you say you will promise her that you will call her at a certain time of the day. This will make sure that she waits by the phone. Tell her when you call youre going to tell her a special surprise. Now she'll be really excited. Now dont call.

27. When she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it. Then, next time you know she's coming over on a trash day, leave the trash can open and have the present visibly sticking out of the can. Girls actually don't like this one that much but I think it's funny.

28. when you are walking and holding her hand (remember to squeeze tight!) lead her into mud puddles, ice patches, and anything else that will get her shoes dirty.

29.When you take her to a movie have her go into the theater while you go to the bathroom, but dont go back to the movie she went to, go to a different one. After the movie, find her in the hall and blame her for moving theaters on you.

2007-01-10 15:39:25 · answer #9 · answered by thedumping 1 · 2 1

Just be yourself,and respectful

2007-01-10 15:33:00 · answer #10 · answered by Nisey 3 · 0 0

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