I am 34 been married 3 times and now single, have always looked at girls..Had first lesbain sex and loved it not in a relationship casual sex..But now I am not attracted to guys in and out of bed..is it I am really a lesbian..OR has my expreince with a girl knocked out the want for guys..Confused please help..nedd to indentify wether im bi or lesbian..
2007-01-10 15:08:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Why do you need to pigeon-hole yourself? Can't you just be you? Is it really that important to define you sexuality? In any event, if your experience with a girl "knocked out the want for guys," then I hear you saying that you are a lesbian. That's your sexual preference. Go for it! Many women who are unhappy in relationships with men never pursue other options and spend unhappy, unfulfilled lives. You're lucky you've discovered this about yourself.
2007-01-10 15:19:23 · answer #1 · answered by Bubbeh C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy have I been here! I would say don't base it on one experience. I fell in love with my partner and I had been married to a guy for 15 years and have two kids. I have a much stronger and more fulfilling relationship with my lesbian partner. I guess I decided that I am bi (I still like the thought of sex with men, just prefer women.)
2007-01-11 00:53:19 · answer #2 · answered by kar506 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be lesbian, or you may be bi but not experiencing the opposite sex attraction at this time. Only time will tell.
You can choose to identify with either.
For the time being, it sounds like you are lesbian.
2007-01-10 23:14:29 · answer #3 · answered by E V 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Right now you are a lesbian. 2 months from now, you may be back to the way you were. It all depends on what experiences you go through and who you meet.
2007-01-10 23:24:10 · answer #4 · answered by unlikely 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Bubbah C. Sexuality is not always fixed for everyone. Some people really do experience phases where they prefer on gender over another. It sounds like you are putting lots of unnecessary pressure on yourself by trying to figure something out that can't be figured out logically - follow your heart.
2007-01-11 08:50:36 · answer #5 · answered by How many questions can there be? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you have had 3 failed marriages and now no longer even like sex with men, it seems obvious to me. If just a one night stand with a girl knocked out all future sexual relations with men, it seems like you should pursue women.
2007-01-10 23:53:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-11 00:36:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are most likely a lesbian.
2007-01-10 23:14:30 · answer #8 · answered by gypsyiiiis 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are most certainly a lesbian.
2007-01-10 23:22:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't really matter. You don't need a title to define who you are. You'll fall in love, and that's really what matters.
2007-01-10 23:52:20 · answer #10 · answered by trivial 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋