For a womans sex drive to increase after having a baby?I had my son 5 months ago and have just about lost all the weight and my sex drive is through the roof?hubby thinks i need to slow down he hinks we should ease back into our sex life.He said he is afraid too hurt me?All my friends think i must have a hormonal imbalance?could that be it?
2007-01-10 15:08:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
My sex drive was never his high before the baby?I find this kind off scary
2007-01-10 15:08:41 · update #1
All my friends think something is wrong with me?
2007-01-10 15:13:12 · update #2
Tell him to be happy..He wont hurt you..Some women don't want sex after a baby....He should be jumping up and down!!
2007-01-10 15:16:00 · answer #1 · answered by jewel64052 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are normal! Don't worry. Tell your husband to just lay back and relax. You can just take over, especially if he's the one that's 'afraid'. You just sooth away his fears. He will follow your lead.
But, on the more serious side. Your hormones are a bit out of wack and may be for a bit. Depends on your age and other factors. I've had 3 kids (over a span of 10 years). It was different with each one afterward. Your body lets you know what is right for you each time. ENJOY!
2007-01-10 23:19:52 · answer #2 · answered by nadda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your body changes while pregnant and a lot of things can change in your life after having a baby. I craved sex after I had my son..my son is 2 and I have since slowed down a bit...probably about half a year ago. I dont think it is abnormal. Your body changes...just go with it. It will probably slow down after a while.
2007-01-10 23:14:00 · answer #3 · answered by Brutally Honest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you have exercised and dieted to loose the weight your sex drive increases because of that and it is all good. Hubby is just not keeping up. I am not saying this is fact but it is something to consider.
2007-01-10 23:17:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your hubby one lucky son of a gun., Damn...why can't I ever find a gal like you. I couldn't think of a better life. Tell him if he hurts you, he will be the second to know. If a woman tells her man she's going to cut him off...he thinks no you won't..you don't know where I'm getting it. That is a two way street. Tell hubby, what all men are thinking....."you lucky so and so"
2007-01-10 23:20:58 · answer #5 · answered by john h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After you have a baby it takes almost a year for your hormones to get back to normal and sometimes they never get back to normal. I had stuff like acne and I hated it, I would take your sex drive for my acne any day. Give it a few months and it should settle down.
2007-01-10 23:14:23 · answer #6 · answered by Hill's Mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it woman! Tell your hubby he'll hurt you more if he doesn't do his job!
And just in case, check your hormone level with the doctor - you wouldn't want to grow a beard now, would you?
2007-01-14 22:30:25 · answer #7 · answered by anchik66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if its normal, but maby you just feel good not to be pregnant any more. Plus you lost all your weight! congrads! Personally I have had two kids and am in my third tri with this one. Mine always goes back with in 6 months and the better I feel, the higher it is. and tell you husband he won't hurt you because your body should have healed its self completely with in 3 months of giving birth
2007-01-10 23:23:36 · answer #8 · answered by sincere_woman25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your body does change after having a baby, hormones are different, etc. So, it is not a odd thing to feel different sexually or otherwise after having a baby.
I don't think there is anything wrong with you, not insane.
2007-01-10 23:18:46 · answer #9 · answered by star22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably does have something to do with hormones, but I don't think it is anything to be worried. And tell your hubby to stop stressing and enjoy.
2007-01-10 23:18:01 · answer #10 · answered by I love sushi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋