2007-01-10 15:01:34 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Look at the quality and not the quantity and you will be able to know immediately.
2007-01-11 00:37:04 · answer #1 · answered by apicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that you left out a lot of information, What kinds of things have been happening? Do you not have sex anymore at all? is he suddenly becoming distant? has his pattern of behavior changed? Did you always have an active sex life? How old is your husband?
There could be many reasons why someone's sex drive drops off.
1. He could be losing interest in you because you've been together for so long, so you could try spicing things up.
2. He could be cheating on you
3. He could have a medical condition
4. He could just be really stressed lately and not in the mood
I would say that you need to talk to him about how your feeling and ask him if there is anything you can do.
2007-01-10 16:05:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you say he is older what age is he 45 55 65 what? I am 60 and have no problem with sex drive at least not now it was way too much earlier on in my life but now it is fine you never get anywhere is you can't talk to your partner about everything under the sun pick a time and talk about it that's the only way you will ever find out what you need to know.
2007-01-10 15:08:19 · answer #3 · answered by doc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain. For the past 5 years I've been asking myself the same question. Just like you've heard of women not wanting sex, it can be the same for men. Don't let it drive you crazy. If YOUR husband is open to talking about it, maybe you can find some middle ground so you can still get...some.
2007-01-10 15:12:30 · answer #4 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People often underestimate the devastating impact this scenario has on the self-esteem of the partner that feels the pain of sexual rejection. It can lead to severe emotional and physical problems, and is not to be treated lightly. The church is notorious for diminishing the role of sex in marriage, and often offers little support. When the libido is far more active in one partner than another, it is best to move heaven and earth to find a solution, and quickly. Rule out physical or emotional problems first, such as erectile dysfunction or clinical depression. Then, find a COMPETENT therapist that specializes in such matters. The consequences of inaction are profound and can lead to irreparable harm to your marriage. To answer your question, age is often an excuse, but seldom a factor in and of itself. I do wish you well.
2007-01-10 15:59:30 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion would be to ask him. Don't ask him like your nagging him, but just say your worried about him. And if it's the low sex drive, or even lost interest, be there for him and communicate to try and rekindle that fire.
2007-01-10 15:08:38 · answer #6 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depend how older he is. My boyfriend is older than me and his sex drive is still on the go but you have to make it where he wants you dress sexy and make him feel that you want him and who knows you have to make thing intersting just try it or buy a book it may help you. I hope I help you
2007-01-14 14:54:44 · answer #7 · answered by daughterpictures 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mainly guys has high sex drive, if he's suddenly changin his habits there's something to worry about, like l'm working late, not hungry, short tempers etc
then approach him, be open and communicate maybe he has a medical problem and his shy to talk about it.
2007-01-10 15:09:45 · answer #8 · answered by deebo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looking at your photos on your Q & A page, I'd definitely say that it isn't you. Has to be something amiss with his sex drive.
2007-01-10 15:09:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
men usually lose attraction to you after a while anyways, so try to spice thing up in your relationship
2007-01-10 15:07:15 · answer #10 · answered by KerryAnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋