My girlfriend cheated on me this summer with a co-worker, and after a 3 month split up we decided to get back together. However, she refuses to stop talking to the guy she cheated on me with. She calls him multiple times everyday even though she promised me she would not talk to him when we got back together. She now insists that she won't stop talking to him, is it wrong for me to demand she stop talking to him?
2007-01-10 14:51:17 · 9 answers · asked by Scooter 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Relationship is build on trust and once it is broken, it would take both parties tremendous efforts to build it up again.
Do talk to her and let her know that by maintaining their relationship (between your gf and that guy) will only harm your relationship and not strengthening it. Thus if she is sincere in getting back together with you, both you and her should avoid involving in issues/matters that can cause confusion.
2007-01-10 15:10:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are giving her the benefit of your trust then she should give you the respect of not talking to this guy. She may never cheat on you again but you don't need that past betrayal rubbed in your face. Your relationship should be a big priority for her and ask her not to talk to him any more. Relationships are about compromise, let her know that you are willing to compromise for her but that this issue makes you see red and you don't want that ugliness affecting your relationship.
2007-01-10 15:01:05 · answer #2 · answered by BLANK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not demand her to stop talking to him. Tell her it hurts you that she calls him up several times a day and if she is serious about you- she will limit her phone calls/conversations.
If she does not, you know she does not really care for you. In that case you may be you are better of without her!
2007-01-10 15:19:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if you guys are back together then she needs to know that there are certain limitations, and i would be concerned if shes doing more then just making phone calls to this guy, if i were you i would make my statement loud and clear and if she refuses again, then forget her, and move on
2007-01-10 15:00:59 · answer #4 · answered by Debbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should demand she quit talking to YOU. She sounds very immature and inconsiderate. She should have stopped talking to him on her own already.
2007-01-10 15:01:20 · answer #5 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest you tell her to stop talking to him altogeather apart from certain reasons for example, work matters... ect and if she refuses then shes not worth keeping
2007-01-10 14:56:49 · answer #6 · answered by ChiKeTa G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope!
2007-01-10 15:26:03 · answer #7 · answered by juicie813 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its wrong to demand,and yes she's wrong too
2007-01-10 15:12:45 · answer #8 · answered by kanaka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's gonna do what she wants to do regardless of what you say.
2007-01-10 14:55:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋