College releasing info without student's consent?

Question

I'm an only child and used to live with my mom until college. She has not made healthy choices and associated herself with druggies and I chose not to be put in that situation and cut ties with her because of her actions. Her and her druggie boyfriend came to my college and requested information about me and my boyfriend. The director of student retention even gave a map of where to find our dorms, the ROOM numbers, and a bunch of other information that I thought was confidential. She gave out my boyfriend's info also. It is not safe for colleges to give out information to just anyone!!!! Is this illegal or did she have a right?

Answer 1

The school had the right to give records to parents of students unless there is a court prohibition. On the other hand, the information regarding your boyfriend was illegal and a proper action could be taken against the college.

Answer 2

If you are over the age of 18, depending on your state, I'd say that the college is at fault. I would discuss this with your dorm assistant they should be able to direct your concerns to someone on campus responsible for handling these issues. Your school/university usually has a student center with counselors and administrators that can assist you with this. I would request that they move you to another room as well - if you feel there is a security issue. Long term - you may want to file a complaint with the university and/or see a temporary restraining order to prevent either of them from showing up.

Answer 3

When I went to college they had a form you had to fill out if you wanted grades and personal info available to parents. If you did not give them permission, they should not have divulged any info. But as far as directions to your room........well, that is probably up to their discretion.