i am the most pathetic person on earth. I'm stupid, i have no talent, i have no personality, i have no motivation to strive for anything.
should i just die?
2007-01-10 14:45:21 · 9 answers · asked by snowangels 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
who on earth gave you this opinion? Certainly, you have suffered at least emotional abuse from someone.The very fact that you can read,write and type places you above millions of people. You write well and have good grammar so I would assume you are intelligent. There are so many places and people needing help due to poverty, that every person is needed. Please go to talk to a psychologist and an internist.There are a lot of non threating illnesses that can cause emotional problems due to hormone and blood levels.You are not a murderer or child abuser, so you do have value. After a psychologist has helpped you realize your value, then you can decide what inyerests you and motivates you. Please call someone now and let me know how you are. mrgrtwatson@yahoo.com Good luck,you CAN feel better.
2007-01-10 15:07:41 · answer #1 · answered by MAGGIENICE 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is there any single unwanted stuff in the whole world?
Have you ever find like that?
God has never sent any such unwanted or not talented living-beings to this mother earth.
And never try to put you down in to your self-pity. The self-pitying nature is the most harmful one to oneself! You first come out of your self-made cocoon. And change your ' i am a failure' language now itself!
Even if you are sitting idle and doing nothing in this world LIKE ALL OTHER CREATURES, BIRDS, ANIMALS AND INSECTS there is nothing wrong in it! God loves all! You can simply be your self and enjoy your self-nature. After all an horse is a horse and a cow is a cow. If you are a cow, people are going to suck milk from you and if you are an horse people are going to ride on your back. And they never expect milk from horse or vise versa!!
IF YOU ARE MORE USEFUL FOR THEM TO WORK FOR, THEY ARE GOING TO LABEL YOU AS A "GOOD STUFF"!
and you too will started enjoying the slavery unknowingly imposed on you!!
Never ever consider yourself or think and talk to others that you are stupid, untalented, no personality, no motivational etc.,etc., by seeing or comparing with others. Every one has his/her day!
YOU JUST BE YOURSELF LIKE A ROSE FLOWER, WAITING AND FLOWERING IN TO THE DENSE FOREST!
And if you sincerely long for some one to come and take you or hug you, then that SOME ONE MAY COME AND RECOGNISE AND WOULD TAKE YOU FOR "THEIR WANTS"!!
2007-01-10 15:40:23 · answer #2 · answered by yozenbalki 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are times when I feel extremely pathetic. Even times like now, yet it is just a feeling and not a fact. The fact is we are Gods creation. The bible says we are fearfully and wonderfully made. There are many times that I am down on myself, however am I not condemning God on how He has made me. Sin is what places a wall between His Love and our pain. Should the pot say to the potter I do not like the way you made me.. Seek Him and He will there with open arms. For He first Loved You.
2007-01-10 15:03:44 · answer #3 · answered by DANIEL F 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are in control of everything that you encounter. You, and ONLY you, have the ability to change yourself. People can push you all they want to make you less "pathetic" (even though you're not), yet nothing will happen if you do not want to become less "pathetic." The weight is on your shoulders now. Your future is up to you, nobody else.
I hope I was helpful. Good luck!
2007-01-10 15:04:04 · answer #4 · answered by Nick Name 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Admitting it is the first step.
There are a lot of pathetic fcuks out there who never realize it.
They think just being who they are makes them special.
These people do nothing worthwhile with their lives.
You are among billions of other people, dying one day at a time.
But you realize the sad situation. You dont care about death. Which means you can now take life by the nuts. Really live. Scream. And show the fcuks something
they've never seen before.
2007-01-10 15:41:08 · answer #5 · answered by sakata14 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well, I can tell you are not stupid. Your grammar and spelling is much better than most people on here. Hang in there. Life does get better.
2007-01-10 14:55:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! You knew how to go on-line and ask this question, so you are not stupid! Do You love someone? As much as they love you? You need love! God bless!
2007-01-10 16:12:29 · answer #7 · answered by DORY 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you make yourself pathetic.... you can change the things that you hate about yourself.. but you have to have a real desire to do so and you have to bust your a s s to get it done.... I know this from experience....and trust me it is not easy and it takes alot of sacrifice!!good luck!!
2007-01-10 14:56:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
No.
2007-01-13 15:07:29 · answer #9 · answered by Twigz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋