Omg...i am close to tears right now! one of my OK-friends flirts her @ss off with a guy I like! I really, really, really like him. Ahh this is so frustrating, cuz i know that he likes her back. and if physically HURTS to see them flirting. I just start crying when those two flirt. It's terrible!!!
I know that the only thing I can do is flirt with him too. He doesn't like me that much, though. I swear, I would kill myself if they ever went out. the pain would be too great for me to handle. (i'm 16)
Do you have any advice??? I've cried on and on about this for a long time, and i've liked him for a long time. I'm actually crying right now. It hurts so bad.
Thank you for reading.
2007-01-10 14:34:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
does she know you like him? i hate it when other girls are like that. the best advice i can give you is dont give up....get a little closer with him and talk to him and maybe he will begin to like you. dont ever be too afraid, trust me when you are about to graduate high school you will wish you did a lot of stuff that you backed out of.....
no one should have to cry tears of sadness
2007-01-10 14:40:15 · answer #1 · answered by manatee_love 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Remember the song " you can't always get what you want" ? Of course not, because kids these days don't listen to anything of substance. If someone doesn't like you, or think of you "that way", you should leave it alone. What do you like about this person anyway? Let me guess, he looks good, has a cool car? In about 5 years, you will remeber this and realize that guys in general arn't worth the tears. And I am a guy. go figure. Concentrate on school. Getting into a good college and focusing on a career. The people you know now, will more than likely not be around you in the future. good luck.
2007-01-10 14:45:40 · answer #2 · answered by BOB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, wow. Girl, this is serious! I know this might be unbearably difficult, but leave those two alone. If they start going out, they will and you can't force them not to. Your OK-friend and your huge crush going out might be a very difficult image for you, I know it'd be for me. You're going to put yourself down if you speak out about it publicly and cause a scene about it, you'll just make yourself the bad guy. Stay friends with your crush for now and take it slowly. The girl who flirted with your crush is definitely not your friend anymore, she's a backstabber and it's best to let her go. That might not be as hard as accepting the fact of those two going out. If your crush isn't right for you, if he doesn't like you, then you can't make him think otherwise and so you better not waste your time and find a guy who appreciates you and is faithful to you, unlike this guy!
2007-01-10 14:46:39 · answer #3 · answered by sPrInG LiLY 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. If he doesn't like you, then that should be enough to end your infatuation with that guy. Also, if you already know that the guy likes your friend, then there is no point in pursuing him since it will not help. Also, early bird gets the worm and if you're friend started flirting first and you hesitated to talk to the guy, then it is your fault, and only fair that your friend should get him.
2007-01-10 14:38:34 · answer #4 · answered by ╦╩╔╩╦ O.J. ╔╩╦╠═ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there for her and check out and get her to speak to her dad and mom... By her speakme to them offers her extra choices on wether or now not she wishes to preserve it and even adoption she has extra choices now than she's going to later. Her dad and mom will uncover out finally simply be certain it isn't to overdue. And be a well pal and check out and support/consultant her to make the offerings she wishes and now not what anybody "wishes" her to do on the grounds that she am has to manage it in a while in existence it doesn't matter what she comes to a decision... And like the woman earlier than mentioned her dad and mom will develop to the notion and sure there is a threat they are going to unfastened it however the will not hurt her or the child. So inspire her to make her selections that allows you to improvement her subsequently.
2016-09-03 20:13:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
did your OK-friends know that you like that dude?
seriously, if he like her more than he like you, there's only one thing left for you to do - move on. somehow, the feeling will fade away. you deserve someone better. cos believe me, when you finally involve with him and knows him well, he not that great after all.
since you're 16, its just another phase for you. cheer up. there's plenty of fish in the sea!
i wish you all the best.
2007-01-10 14:45:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen sweetie no guy is worth all that and your friend can't really be much of a friend either. You are better off without either of them.
2007-01-10 14:40:59 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. Fuzzy Bottoms 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't cry sweetie, Let her have him because your beating a dead horse, other wise i mean she likes him he likes her ....give your self a new due just to make your self feel better and go out some were. There lots of other guys out there maybe you will find one even better.Yes i know your a guy
2007-01-10 14:42:46 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ Becky ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I remember those days.. she does it to antagonize you..if I remember correctly, that's what girls your age often do to each other. Get better and more supportive friends...
2007-01-10 14:41:19 · answer #9 · answered by Robert B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a "do he like me?" quesiton, cuz i wanna gag if i ever see one of those questions again
2007-01-10 14:41:31 · answer #10 · answered by Man 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋