first i m working 9-6, 6days, wholeday sittingin front of computer, my eyes r vy tired, like burning, sometime water comes out, & ittitation alsomy eyesight no. is already -3.50left, & right -4.00, please give me some solution. secondaly, last year2006 on 6th feb. my brother passed away, and We finish all religious things on 15th feb. actually both dates r impotant 4 me, b'coz in 2005on 5th feb. i got engage& on 15th feb. my marriage, so this yr.i dont know i have celebrate my anniversary or do wht. i also think abt. my husbands feelings, 1 yr. passed, when my hubby goes 4 night job, only i cry, i never cry in front of my hubby b'coz i know he feels bad. wht. can i do now. i also make my hubby happy & can't forget my brother also whom i miss every moment in day & night. this is punishmment 4 me given by god 4 whole life. please help wht. i have to do?
2007-01-10 14:18:57 · 7 answers · asked by deep 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
why do people use numbers in place of words. It is really hard to read.
2007-01-10 14:29:35 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry about your brother. You can celebrate your anniversary. You know you miss and think about your brother all the time. You have a right to be happy. I know you are not being punished by god. You sound like a very good person and deserve to be happy. Is there any way you can talk to your husband about getting a day job. So you won't miss him so much and cry.
2007-01-10 22:46:42 · answer #2 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry about your brother. However, your life has to go on. I doubt that your brother would want you to miss out on celebrating your anniversary. Go have a nice dinner, keep it low key and do something special that day to remember your brother too. But you can't let your marriage and anniversary get overlooked.
2007-01-10 22:23:58 · answer #3 · answered by gummygrins 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depression causes the mind to do strange things. On your wedding anniversary, please celebrate because it's the day you married the man of your dreams.
I'm sorry your brother died. However he wouldn't want you to rearrange your entire life by ignoring the living (your husband) in order to celebrate the dead. That seems backwards.
Please seek counseling. Psychologists are listed in the yellow pages of most phone books.
2007-01-10 22:26:37 · answer #4 · answered by domesticgoddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe i dont understand the questio but celebrate your anniversary a day early or late or make it a weekend thing
2007-01-10 22:22:29 · answer #5 · answered by Jane Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry about your brother, but think what would your brother want you to do? I'm sure he would want you to be happy and to celebrate your anniversary. He would want you to be happy.
And God is not punishing you. I think you need to pray and ask God for strength, comfort and guidance also.
2007-01-10 22:56:23 · answer #6 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a shrink...
2007-01-10 22:23:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋