How do you tell your husband you need more support from him?

Question

My husband drives a truck and we have recently moved to a new town. I gave up my job to come here. He told me not to worry about getting a job right off the bat because he would send me money. It has been Two months and I have not recieved any money yet. I have recently started applying for jobs because i have ran out of my own money. I am living with my niece. I feel bad because her bills are due and i don't have any money to help her pay them. When I ask for money from him he changes the subject and tell me not to worry about it. What am i to do?

Answer 1

How do you know your husband hasnt ditched you, call his company, or talk to him and tell him he needs to send every other check to you, every good man takes care of their wife both emotionally and finacially

Answer 2

You really need to talk to your husband let him know how you feel and that you left your job and moved for him, and he promised to send you Money but you have not seen any. Tell him that your thinking about moving back to your old town. Did you give a 2 weeks notice at your last job. If so contact them see if you could come back. And if you have not seen any money then you have to ask yourself is this worth it. Where is the money going ? Could you even get in touch with him if you needed to contact him? Talk to your niece let her know the situation I am pretty sure she would understand. If you were not there she would still have the same bills. Until you can find a job, taht you are satisfied with , go to Walmart, or Fast Food Money is money You need to do what ever it takes to survive. or you may even want to try a temp service in your area. (good Luck)

Answer 3

Talk to your husband don't let him change the subject. You hold your own. The you go out and get a job and move out of your niece's house with or without your husband

Answer 4

Where is your husband???

My father is an over-the-road trucker, and he's NEVER been gone for two whole months. He shouldn't need to send you money...where are his paychecks going if not to your place? Don't you have access to the bank account?

Honey, it sounds like you have A LOT more to worry about than helping out your neice.

Answer 5

See if you can get your old job back and move back to where you are from. If he never comes home or sends you money it shouldn't matter what town you live in.

Answer 6

My husband drives a truck and we get direct deposit? Tell your husband look I need some cash or you will go work at a bar. That should get him to give you some money. Why does he need all the money anyway? Talk to him about direct deposit.

Answer 7

First call him and ask again for money,don't go around the bushes. If,he change the subject go back to it. You need an answer Now.

Look for a job.I know is not easy,but you need to start getting $$.
I don't know your complete situation,but his answer is suspicious to me.
Talk to him & get your answers very clear.

best of Luck to you!

Answer 8

do what you have to do to survive. get a job and don't listen to him when he tells you not to worry. because he doesnt have anything to worry about but you do. and then you need to tell him that he is wrong for putting you in that position in the first place.

Answer 9

You need to get a job, fast and get a divorce. Move back if you can, but don't depend on him. I think he's proven he's undependable.

Answer 10

Start looking for a job you abviously can't depend on him.And its certainly not fair to not help her and you live there.