well heres the thing i met my bf online 6 months now
he came to spend christmas with my fam and me
everything was fine and all my dad doesnt live with us but came for those days as well then left to mexico with my sis for a vacation
and he stayed a couple more days with my mom and me [his younger brother came as well] hes 18 and im 15 by the way he was telling us that hes thinking about moving to my town and my mom said it was kool and as i said my mom was just fine with everything they were joking around and it was almost too perfect i kno my mom well and she was really ok with him
as soon as he left my mom was against him that she didnt like him
that he wasnt right for me and that she didnt want him living close
i asked her why the change so fast
and she told me that she didnt like the way he acted
that he wanted to control me and demand me too much? :o
and that i didnt obey her while he was here i mean i did obey but mayb i just didnt spend much time wit her-idk help plz..
2007-01-10 13:35:38 · 5 answers · asked by ruthie_m89 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Now that I'm grown up I can see what was wrong with the boys my parents didn't like. She probably sees that he's not good for you.
2007-01-10 13:47:20 · answer #1 · answered by sherockstn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely he won't end up moving to your town. While the idea sounds great, moving your life to a new town is expensive and difficult, especially when you are 18 years old. While you may not understand your mom, you should know that she loves you and only wants the best for you. I hate to say it, but mom's really do know what is best for their daughters. I think when you meet the right person your mother will welcome him with open arms. Part of the problem right now may be the fact that you are 15 and she doesn't feel you should be deeply involved with someone. You are her baby girl and she'll want you to stay that way as long as possible. I think she's just being protective. Trust your mom, but ultimately do what makes you happy.
2007-01-10 21:54:35 · answer #2 · answered by Jen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could have her meet him again. The first impression isn't always the best one. Try having them talk together. The first time my mom met my boyfriend she said the same thing. But now she's all for us getting married this summer. Just have him over more and let her get to know him.
Good Luck and God Bless!
2007-01-10 21:46:16 · answer #3 · answered by asimb0708 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Mom's been around for a while, and has had an opportunity or two to size up men. I think that you should listen to her.
2007-01-10 21:46:11 · answer #4 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to ur mom!!!MOTHER KNOWS BEST!!!
2007-01-10 21:43:52 · answer #5 · answered by lady_master28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋