how to make a woman orgazam?

Question

i am a 30 year old woman and although sex with my partner is fantastic i cant have an orgazam and i have never had an orgazam. is there something wrong with me or is tere something we can try

Answer 1

well...i wouldn't know, but get creative.

Answer 2

Woman Orgazam

Answer 3

He would help to know how many partners you have had. Do you orgazam when you masterbate? If you do there is not a real problem you can't fix with the right guy. Oral sex on you by a skilled person should work, or finding your G-spot with his finger. Have you tried long, long fore-play with soft background music (Kenny G works) and candles? Make sure there are no distractions. Start with a shower together or a Hot Tub and move into a cozy bedroom will all the romance you can come up with. Good Luck!

Answer 4

Orgasm is available to all humans, but that doesn't mean we all experience orgasm as a matter of course.

Firstly...there is nothing wrong with you. There are all sorts of myths around orgasm...not least the one that suggests that all men can get one but only 50% of women can...Rubbish!

I have personally experienced at least 20 different kinds of orgasm..this is because orgasm is an individual experience.
I have also had sex where there was no climax to signify the end of the experience...but the emotional high has been as good as anything I have ever experience.

I could write for hours on this subject...but the point is that sex with your partner is fantastic. Do not listen to some dork who thinks with his penis telling you he gets something you don't...

He doesn't!

Answer 5

Firstly not everyone can have a orgasm during sex I'm not sure of the exact percentage but it is quite low the amount of women who can have one during sex. One sure fire way to have an orgasm is to rub your clitoris while having sex this will make you have an orgasm. Also try clenching you muscles inside while having sex as this also helps to bring on a orgasm. Have you ever tried adult sex toys? As some of these may helping i.e vibrating rings that your partner can wear on his parts that would stimulate both of you at the same time.

It is also often said that women are more likely to have an orgasm on top or on hands and knees as it rubs on your g-spot.

I hope this helps.

Answer 6

First of all you have to stop focsing on obtaining orgasm and just relax and enjoy the sex. If you're hell bent on an orgasm and strive for it everytime you engage in sex you'll never have one. Instead relax, allow your inhibitions to flow out of you and enjoy the sex.

Answer 7

Buy a vibrator and play with it while you're alone. That's the easiest way to achieve one. Once you get used to giving them to yourself, you'll be able to figure out what kind of things you like and don't like. Then instruct your partner on how to touch you.

Answer 8

Try a vibrator whilst alone and see exactly what it is you like then you can tell him.
Is he putting pressure on your because you never hit the button?
The more you worry the less likely you are to get there anyway.

Answer 9

Find out where your clitoris is located and that's what needs to be stimulized.. how can u tell that your sex is fantastic if you don't feel the sensation and don't experience orgasm at all??

Answer 10

Get your man to wear a fake nose,moustache and glasses. And have a cigar hanging out of his mouth. Always works with my missus.

Answer 11

Lisa, it's all in your head. You have to read about how your body works. Start with this link that I found.