2007-01-10 13:04:02 · 9 answers · asked by babegyrl202002 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Talk with him about it. Then you can decide what to do. Good luck
2007-01-10 13:07:22 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. Always Right 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to your bf about how you feel. It may seem like you're not ready and it might be a scary feeling but things happen for reason. You know the pain of losing not just one but two little ones how could you think of not having this new baby that has been sent to you. I lost my baby one week after i gave birth so I know how painful it is. This was in Aug of 05 and we plan on trying again this year. I'm so excited at the idea of having a baby again but at the same time im very scared and in a way i too think im not ready yet. I guess because of what we went through all the pain im afraid of something going wrong. Just be strong and be happy for the blessing you've received. I'm sure this new baby will bring you lots of happiness. Good luck.
2007-01-10 16:11:17 · answer #2 · answered by LD82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry for your loss. You should look into support groups locally or online to help you with your grief. You also should be more open with your bf and discuss how you both are coping and just communicate. Not to be insensitive why werent you using some kind of birth control if you werent sure you were ready? You shouldnt let your loss effect this pregnancy or your relationship with your new baby. Just try to look ahead to the future and be more open in your relationship.
2007-01-10 13:27:34 · answer #3 · answered by pinkjet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the best thing to do would be to tell him. tell him that your going to need alot of help with this pregnancy,especially when the baby is here because it's emotionaly hard on you., i have a baby due in 11 days and i lost 1 twin at the beginning of the pregnancy and if my boyfriend wouldnt have been here throught the pregnancy i dont think i emotionally could have made it through. now i am worried i'll have post partum b/c when i see her i know that i lost her brother...i dunno it will all be ok. if you need to talk you can e-mail me.
2007-01-10 13:12:18 · answer #4 · answered by Lani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are not ready for the 4th pregnancy, why keep on on love making with your bf. You should whisper to him that you are not ready fo the child and dont be arouse when he is whispering you for love making
2007-01-10 13:15:33 · answer #5 · answered by Jesus M 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may seem a bit too much.Especially,after losing twins.I'm very sorry for your loss.I wish you the best!Really,I don't know what you should tell him.I've never been in your place.That is entirely up to you.
2007-01-10 13:20:12 · answer #6 · answered by First Lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for the lost but maybe this child can help your relationship stronger. Talk with him and see!
2007-01-10 13:10:33 · answer #7 · answered by Moms Pretty little Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk everything through with your boyfriend.
You will get through this, and your boyfriend will be able to support you through all these feelings you have.
2007-01-10 13:32:36 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Pamela♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just honestly talk with your boyfriend. maybe this baby will help you heal.
2007-01-10 13:08:40 · answer #9 · answered by zimba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋