Me and a girlfriend where playing around with each other, pretending to "practice" kissing. We ostensibliy wanted to get ready for our boyfriends. However, I really liked it. It felt great. Does it mean that I am gay or bi?
2007-01-10 12:47:12 · 13 answers · asked by Shanti 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You could be gay or bi, or it could just be her and how she kisses. Other things, like how you feel when you look at a girl or your fantasies, will give you more clues.
A columnist for Boston.com answered a really similar question yesterday. You may want to read this.
http://www.boston.com/news/globe/living/articles/2007/01/09/shes_confused_by_her_attraction_to_girls?mode=PF
2007-01-10 13:17:01 · answer #1 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did those same things when I was growing up the first kiss and first playing around was with a girl, although all along I knew I liked men I just was curious as you were and thats all you could really get away with doing it to, at that age you cant have a guy stay over or really be alone with a guy and feel secure in attacking them. I dont know why but I almost had a larger sex drive at 8-15 then I did from 16-27 and now its picking up again which i've always heard of anyways I think its normal pretty much ofcourse it could go either way I mean at heart you should know what you really want, I liked the kiss to its a good feeling ,just think about it do you find yourself wanting to find girls to kiss or just practice with girls because thats whats available and really want boys in the future, you know this, good luck , ps , my cousin also suffered from being the only one within my reach Kim
2007-01-10 13:00:47 · answer #2 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how do you practice kissing? were you actually kissing her?
if so, and if you enjoyed this, then hmmm.. sounds like you might be bi curious..
ummm, that's a really strange way to "practice" for your boyfriends.. if you really loved your boyfriend, you would "practice" on him only..
i think you really need to ask yourself if you really love your boyfriend or not..
if you would rather be with a girl, then it's probably best to break things off. whjy prolong the agony..
but if you love him yet also seem intersted in women, then this would be bisexual.. just becareful about what you do behind yout guy's back.. cheating is still cheating, even if it is with a girl.
but hmmmm, maybe this could open the doors for something fun and exciting between the 4 of you!
2007-01-10 12:54:44 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you both wanted to kiss and be kissed by another girl, and the pretense was to allow that to happen. And since it felt great, you are certainly in a "bi" stage, which may or may not be part of a gay awakening.
2007-01-10 12:55:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal feelings but misinterpreted. Gender disorientation is easy when young and things can be confusing. Many claim this as some sort of "sign" your gay but this is just not true. Every study shows different. You should be careful though as you can do great damage to yourself and possibly lock yourself into a difficult place to get out of. Search the truth of the matter by studying real studies and also by listening to many who greatly regret going that path. You know what is normal and what isn't. Its just a fact that when something is strange it can be exciting but that does not make it safe or good. Dangerous things always stimulate but sometimes kill. Be careful.
2007-01-10 12:58:56 · answer #5 · answered by beek 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you might be... it takes more than a kiss though.
I'm bi.... ask yourself if you fancy guys at all... if so, you are bi.
what you do now is TOTALLY your choice, you can act on it if you want, or not if you don't.
I've had boyfriends and girlfriends, now I'm in a long term relationship with a girl.
It's cool to be bi. It's great to fall for people, remember that.
2007-01-10 13:04:39 · answer #6 · answered by psychedelic_fighter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you were/are just curious about everything. Nothing too surprising. Just because you enjoyed it, doesn't mean anything unless you want it to mean something. Might just mean that you are a very relaxed, open-minded girl who enjoys things that feel good - however and with whomever they may happen.
2007-01-10 13:19:16 · answer #7 · answered by Amy L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like women to but i currenty have a guy and am crazy in love with him some ppl call being with another woman bi i call it exploring your growing sexuality
you need to find a female that is understanding and will treat your wishes with respect if you try being with a woman and dont like it thats 100 percent ok if you like it that 100 percent ok to dosent mean you have to marry a woman just follow your heart and explore your feelings
AND STAY SAFE ABOUT IT
2007-01-10 13:06:20 · answer #8 · answered by The_Darker_Side_of_Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got a boyfriend, so you can't be gay. If you like to make out with girls, embrace it. If you ever break it off with your boyfriend, I mean.
2007-01-10 12:56:07 · answer #9 · answered by ☆Tąrą☆ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not necessarily, you should see how your friend felt about it, just cuz it felt good doesn't mean your gay she just might be a really great kisser
2007-01-10 12:51:50 · answer #10 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋