ok I have a guy friend (Andy) and well we r very close but just friends and ppl keep saying we make such a cute couple and we both keep insisting that we r just friends.... Ppl say they r sorry it's just easy 2 mistake us cuz of the way we act (hugging, tickling, and talking almost every free second we have ) it wouldn't bother me as much, if I didn't already have a bf, and sometimes I feel like I have feelings for him like last night we just sat their hugging and reading and I fell asleep on his chest. I'm really confused because well I think I'm starting 2 get a crush on Andy but I still luv my bf. How do I stop from feeling this way for him? and how do we get ppl 2 stop sayig we r such a cute couple?
2007-01-10 12:26:01 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
and my bf has no idea because it's not something I just wanna blurt out and plus we r in a long distance relation ship so I have 2 be very careful. I dont' want 2 hurt ym bf and I'm not sure if I should or how 2 tell him abotu this.
2007-01-10 12:31:46 · update #1
Be like well i have a bf and we are friends and leave me alone i dont really know what to say
2007-01-10 12:31:07 · answer #1 · answered by ~Christine~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't stop having feelings for someone. Life doesn't work that way. You just need to sort out what's most important to you: your current boyfriend, what you want from Andy, you current friendship with Andy, and what other people think about you (which should definitely be on the bottom!!)
2007-01-10 20:32:52 · answer #2 · answered by booda2009 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are acting like a couple. I'm surprised your boyfriend hasn't had a problem with this. Obviously, you have more than just "friend" feelings for Andy. It's time to back off of your relationship. Focus on one guy at a time--or you'll be in big trouble before you know it.
2007-01-10 20:29:55 · answer #3 · answered by kyletexas_123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-10 20:29:21 · answer #4 · answered by kay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are ignorant if you think that there's nothing happening with Andy. If you want to keep your boyfriend, stop hanging out with Andy. If you want to be with Andy, break up with your boyfriend or tell him that you want to see other people but what you are doing is betraying/cheating on your boyfriend.
2007-01-10 20:37:03 · answer #5 · answered by sherockstn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deside if you like one more than the other, or not. If not, then make both of them just your 'friend' so that there's no hard feelings. Sit down with Andy and just discuss it. If everything u said is true, then he'll understand, and he'll offfer advise, too.
2007-01-11 00:54:39 · answer #6 · answered by tech.freek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop acting like a couple and the rest will follow
Good Luck
2007-01-10 20:29:23 · answer #7 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep telling people that you're really good friends and that there's nothing going on. it's ok to get comfortable with your best friend and that can ultimately be mistaken forhaving a crush. and if you do tell your boyfriend. if he really cares about you he'll help you through it.
2007-01-10 20:36:50 · answer #8 · answered by illinios2hollywood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is obvious you want HIM not another person so just dump your other boyfriend and then talk to him about dating because the way you say it DOES mak eit seem like your are boyfriend and girlfriend
2007-01-10 20:31:30 · answer #9 · answered by Dancer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u will have to choose between that guy and your bf cos sooner or later u bf will find out about this one way or the other
=)
2007-01-11 00:36:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋