Small lovestory. My bf lives abroad. He and I met thr a common friend n became good buddies and while he was leaving,he proposed to me which was shocking for whole group. I accepted since i really loved him. The first month he called three times a day, then it dropped to once in two days n now its dropped to once a month. Im really scared of my life. I really love him much. I tried telling him that plz stay intact thr any means of communication. Donno watz wrong, but he never calls me much these days n despite of my n number of times saying willl call only when he likes. This time its been 26 days he dint call. Im worried abt my relationship and donno how to approach him on this. I donno watz the problem. Plz help me. Im becoming sick. I cry. I feel bad.
2007-01-10 12:08:59 · 9 answers · asked by Dolly19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
with love comes the insecurities of love.......so accept it or ........ find out wht's going on??u said u met through common friends so ask someone about him........r u sure of his character i men is he a one girl kinda guy???find out.....really it may sound like a spying task but it is not u have a right to be secure in ur relation don't u?in the first place why was ur entire group shocked?is it because they thought he is not ur type or because they din't have a clue??if u cannot get information about him simply ask him directly as to whenre ur relation stand and wht is going on??!!! tell him to be clear and not hang u up.........but having said all this i also think that sometimes we reach a comfort level in our relations in which even if u don't talk for sometime both know that u r being thought about every minute and r still very much in love....but this stage can only be reached in extrememly secure relations.........is ur bf too busy with something he has told u about?or is he just taking u for granted?it all depends on how much u trust him?if u don't trust him which really is not a bad thing i mean u need to know certain things too...i suggest u find out for urself...........if u r not convinced than pull out now.....and remember no guy is worth ur tears and the one who is will never make u cry.......all the best........
2007-01-11 01:30:24 · answer #1 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 23:26:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how heartbreaking it can be to be hurting over someone you love. It sounds as if you two met during a vacation of some sort? As you said yourself "small love story". In other words too short of a time spent together to really know each other and make a life committment. Many times when the time is fun, we mistake our feeling for love. It sounds to me as if he went back to his original life and has put his feelings in the right perspective and has moved on. I know it hurts to hear this. But you like most of us have at one point in our lives is suffering the pain of a broken heart. Believe me when I say you will get over this. Move on with your life, go out with your friends, keep busy. Motivate yourself to make great changes in your life. He might call one day, but do not wait around for his call. And even if he did call, if I were you, next time I would not give my love away so freely. Good luck to you and keep reaching out to people to express your pain and for help..
2007-01-11 02:47:52 · answer #3 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is another story of how guys take the feelings of girls for a ride. Dolly, dont want to be rude to you, but be careful when you make friends, especially when it comes to the emotional aspect. Be sure that you link with the right person.. or else its a disaster and i can understand how hard its for you. Cheer up..thats not the end of the world.. perhaps destiny has a better person for u in the future...
Take care.
Sunshine.
2007-01-10 17:32:51 · answer #4 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a lying creep, he was most definatley playing with your emotions to get you in bed. I bet he's got a whole slew of girls hangin on by a thread just like you. Don't even wast your time girl, I promise he is not even worth the time you took to type out that question!
2007-01-10 12:19:32 · answer #5 · answered by DropTopAle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well wish i cld help u out...maybe he is too busy in his work or maybe his feelings have changed...jst spk frankly to him...u cant keep hanging on to someone who is abroad n waste ur time jst worryin why he doesnt call up....make sure u spk to him abt this the next time he calls up and be vocal abt it...tell him if he no longer cares for u then u need to go separate ways...judge whts his reaction...he shld feel sorry if he is genuine....apart frm this there is no way.....
2007-01-10 17:36:24 · answer #6 · answered by rajdebrain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First calm down n don't take panic. May b he is busy in his job. So wen he call u talk 2 him abt whole thing. Ok
2007-01-10 23:10:01 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sounds alarming and be carefull and do keep a checkm. also talk to him openly and ask 4 reasons 4 such behaviour.
whether he loves u or not.
whether he want to continue the relationship..... what the problem is
2007-01-10 16:18:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to hear that. that happened to me well kinda but you shouldnt cry for him i mean if he doesnt call u at all then he has probably moved on. sometimes you just need to face the truth. sorry but goood luck hopefully things change for the better
2007-01-10 15:04:38 · answer #9 · answered by krazy&sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋