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about a 44 year old woman that lives with a 76 year old woman and doesn't help with the bills?she has a job and the woman lives on a fixed income and when she asks for her help she tells her she has no money but can buy her smokes and run the roads and eat out all the time.

2007-01-10 11:26:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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Assuming it is the 44 year old who is "living with a job and not helping out," and assuming the 76 year old is not a relation (mother, Aunt, Grandmother) it sounds like a problem. If you care about either of them it would be clear that there should be a written and signed rent agreement with penalties written in. Perhaps this is a growing up stage where the younger one is suppose to take care of the aging person. Sometimes arrangements have been set up to have free living in a home as well as free lifestyle with the only cause to insure the other is living? Ask if necessary. Or try to show the two that there should be a sharing of responsibilities, finances (35-65% of income) to assist with costs, something like that to share fairly.
Best wishes and good luck.

2007-01-10 14:05:27 · answer #1 · answered by Gary M 3 · 1 0

This kind of thing is not uncommon, there are all kinds of losers who pull this crap on the elderly. The 76 year old needs to put her foot down with this 44 year old who is obviously a loser and a liar. Infact too little, too late, someone needs to fork lift the 44 year olds a** right out of the 76 year olds home and fast.

2007-01-10 14:49:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It is time the 76 year old woman tells the 44 year old to start paying her fair share or move out. Sad thing is she has established residency so she probably can't just kick her out, most states have laws like this. She more than likely would have to have her evicted.
L.

2007-01-13 03:51:13 · answer #3 · answered by tink3610 3 · 0 0

That is really up to the 76 year old woman to handle that. Are they related? Are they mother and daughter? or what? You left details out so it is hard to look into that answer.

2007-01-14 09:58:08 · answer #4 · answered by tootsie38 4 · 0 0

Does the word "parasite" mean anything to you?

2007-01-10 12:05:13 · answer #5 · answered by antirion 5 · 1 0

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