How does someone deal with losing a baby. I was pregnant but lost the baby about a month ago. Has anyone with experience got any advice???
2007-01-10 11:25:46 · 4 answers · asked by Moore's Babe 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
I LOST MY BABY WHEN I WAS SEVENTEEN I AM NINETEEN NOW BUT MY STORY IS DIFFERENT MY BABY WAS BORN 5 MONTHS EARLY AND WEIGHED 1 LB 8 OZS HE DIED 3 DAYS LATER BECAUSE HIS BRAIN WAS BLEEDING IT WAS VERY HARD I DIDNT THINK I WOULD BE ABLE TO MAKE IT LOOSING MY BABY BUT THE THING I DID WAS TALK TO FAMILY AND FRIENDS ABOUT WHAT YOU ARE FEELING DO NOT KEEP YOUR FEELING IN THAT IS THE WORST THING TO DO AND I AM VERY SORRY ABOUT YOUR LOSS BUT GOOD THINGS WILL COME GOOD LUCK AND TAKE CARE
2007-01-10 12:37:04 · answer #1 · answered by Teri Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How far along were you? I lost three pregnancies over a 4 year period, and finally now have had a pregnancy go to term, my son is 20 months old now.
IT is really hard to go through, and what got me through it was talking to other people who have gone through it, going to support groups, and reading the blogs of people having the same problems. One of the other things I did was check and check and check with the Doctors on why I was losing the babies, and working on each and every issue, so that when the time came, hopefully we could go to term. I also kept changing Doctors, until finally we got one who seemed to take my problems seriously.
It was one of the hardest things int he world, and I still grieve everyday.
I don't know if that helps, but...
Do a web seacrh for the blog a little bit pregnant, she keeps an entire list of bloggers trying, who have been successful, etc... she has everything...
2007-01-10 21:34:43 · answer #2 · answered by jiltediwfe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there you will have heard this before but time is a gr8 healer .. i emotionally shut down and blocked everyone out and no one seemed to realise what i was going through ..Once i let them in the healing process started and the tears flowed .I have had 13 miscarriages at various stages and i learnt the only way to heal was to talk and share my experiences i also named my babies and refered to them by names rather than "it" to me naming them made it real and then i could grieve my thought are with you xxx
2007-01-11 13:33:21 · answer #3 · answered by sammie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A close friend of mine is suffering the same thing. She miscarried, got pregnant again and her baby was stillborn. I don't think you ever get over it, but support groups might help. I'm so sorry for your loss.
2007-01-14 17:56:11 · answer #4 · answered by been_there_done_that 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋