~~~I love what I do for my job, customer relations,,,,have to talk to alot of Drs everyday,,,,but my boss is 'constantly' riding me, with "why did you do that, why did you do this' ,,all day long brow beating me,,,my job is to make our Drs happy,,,they are our clients,,and I will do anything to keep them as a client because I look at it as "they" are important,and if it wasnt for them, I would not have a pay check,,,,but my boss is alllllllllllways yelling, putting me down for doing my job,,,,I grew up with "respect your elders and your boss" so I cant back talk her. I dont have her respect I know that for sure,,,,how do I handle a boss that is constantly questioning every breath I take,,,,???? any advice?? ohh,,I have tried asking her "why?" and she says "cause I said so",,and I have seen her make little mistakes that we all make, and I never confront her because I respect her,,,,how come I dont get the same respect back? Really need advice,,,,,
2007-01-10 10:56:33 · 7 answers · asked by ~~Penny~~ 5 in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
~~also,,we live in a small town,,,I can go to personal and tell them because my boss and head of personel are best of friends,,,so Im stuck with no one really to talk to ,,,
2007-01-10 10:58:10 · update #1
correction,,,typo,,,,I "can not " go to personel,,,,
2007-01-10 10:59:07 · update #2
I have had several bosses like this over the years. I think it makes them feel "good" to make you feel bad. That just proves that they have some serious personal issues. But what to do about it ? I had to sit down and tell one of my bosses how he was hurting my feelings by being smart-allecky with me and short and rude. Any time I tried to start a conversation with him, he would snub me and so then I just quit trying. He would have conversations with others in the office but not me and I told him about this and he made an effort to be better. He really tried and things got better for a while but they were never quite right and the company we worked for was all screwed up anyway. My boss's boss was a jerk to him sometimes and you would think my boss wouldn't want to continue this sort of behavior and pass it on to me, but he did. Well, good luck with your issues. I quit my job soon after my boss quit. The company sucked !!
2007-01-18 09:43:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off you have my sympathy. That is just plain BS on her part. SO.......
The next time she starts w/ this crap.........Have a conversation w/ her during a non work period of the day and approach her as follows....
Well Ms.btch, my position is very important to me and I enjoy my job and want to perform to the best of my abilities. To do this I willl need your help. Please provide me w/ the training I wil need to meet your expectations. Put together a set of guidelines for handling certain / various situations so I can address your concerns to your satisfaction. I guess as I see it, if she is always jumping you for this that or the other, then she needs to take the time to put down in writing a set of guidelines for you to operate from. If she doesn't do that, how can she expect you to perform in some specific manner!
PS - Maybe you should confront her in a professional way when you see her making mistakes, it could be a learning experience.
Patrick
2007-01-18 04:59:18 · answer #2 · answered by Patrick M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hate to say it but you need to move on and fine yourself a better job or try to relocate to a different place. No matter what you do in life dear your never gonna be happy and that can cause stress in your life and as a woman it takes tolls on us faster, especially if you hold it inside. So i say to you no matter how great the job is you can always find something better. Talk to one of the doctors see if they have openings with them and get the heck out of that kind of treatment...respect or no respect you should receive the same treatment as you give.
2007-01-17 18:44:24 · answer #3 · answered by Jeanette 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do not have to take that kind of abuse from your boss. If it is that bad, then you need to move on. It's a possibility that is what she is wanting you to do anyways by the way she is treating you. Don't stay at a job if it doesn't make you happy to be there. You can do better.
2007-01-18 02:13:37 · answer #4 · answered by DawnC36 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh costly yet another sexist misogynist dinosaur in a severe powered job. ok, permit's plot his downfall mutually. a million, talk to somebody else who's woman and have been given low marks from him. 2 talk to a diverse MALE who have been given severe marks from him. 3 bypass and see the Human components Officer and make your criticism commonplace, bringing up the two others you have spoken to. 4 Say to the HR officer that IF this supervisor isn't spoken to or investigated in a functional time (2-3 Weeks) then you definitely would be searching for criminal suggestion. 5 interior the interim, consult from the voters suggestion Bureau approximately Sexism interior the place of work. they are in a position to place you in touch with human beings from enterprises who handle this type of factor regular. 6 If issues do no longer advance or you're under pressure and bullied because of the fact of your criticism, you will ought to communicate to a solicitor. yet have faith me, it wont get that a approaches, have confidence me. Sexism interior the place of work is unlawful and the HR dept will understand that and act upon it.
2016-10-06 23:24:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think the best way for you to resolve this issue is ask her for a meeting and behind closed doors, tell her how she makes you feel and ask her if there is something you need to do to improve to gain her confidence and trust. Honesty is the best policy, but you are right about not getting in her face about it. She will respect you for talking to her I think.
2007-01-18 08:17:21 · answer #6 · answered by Pam W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play a prank when he is off guard glue his seat but dont be seen or caught...............good luck
2007-01-10 12:24:50 · answer #7 · answered by king chaos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋