Lost it when I had my two babies?
2007-01-10 10:41:10 · 8 answers · asked by Baby 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
How old are the children now? It can take a while for your body to recover! 2 or 3 years, even. Plus, if you have a lot of stress, that will kill the libido. I read that probably a third of men with ED symptoms are suffering from STRESS, not incompetent plumbing.
First off, consider taking a break (send the kids to granny or a trusted friend/family member) and spend a few days on yourself. Do you not have to sacrifice your entire life to your children, and a healthy parent is a better parent.
If that does not help, you might want to consider counseling. If you feel that is not where the problem lies (and DO try therapy before moving on to the next suggestion)
Please go see your GYN to discuss options. I have a friend who takes VERY SMALL amounts of synthetic testosterone and it works great for her. However, you MUST have a doctor help with this because taking too much can give you really bad PMS like symptoms or worse, masculine hair growth and a deeper voice! And THAT's not sexy even if you are horny enough to explode.
2007-01-10 11:27:15 · answer #1 · answered by Plesso 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, a lost libido can mean many things. You have two kids, they may be where most of your attention is going and most likely most of your energy is gone too. Secondly, it can be an emotion or psychological issue. Maybe you have been stressed, that leads to a form of depression and most likely your libido is taking the fall. There are exercises you can do, there are people you can look for to help you, or you can just take a relaxing vacation.
I would seek medical or psychological attention first then play it by ear.
Good luck!!!
2007-01-10 18:57:40 · answer #2 · answered by slickkittykattwhopurs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 babies? first get some help taking care of 2 babies... next... plan for some intimacy.... sex optional not mandatory... get pretty! wear something comfortable but makes you feel sexy... think sexy... read sexy.... practise sexy!.... try some mutual massage and cuddling... work up to it... make a point to kiss and hug and fondle daily... are you breast feeding? it may take you to wean before you get the urge back...... hormone changes and alll.... there are phytochemicals that will increse your horomone levels talk to a doctor or naturopath aobut that...
good luck!
2007-01-10 19:02:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET A SITTER AND HAVE A DATE NIGHT WITH YOUR HUBBY, SEXY UNDER WARE FOR HIM TO SEE, OR NOTHING AT ALL. NO WORRIES, JUST THE 2 OF YOU. GO AWAY FOR AN OVER NIGHT IF POSSIBLE,. VALENTINES DAY IS COMING UP GO FOR IT.
2007-01-10 18:57:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my start to dress up and just fell good about your self... pamper your self, take a day off work and babies.
then start to think naughty it will get you HOT AND READY! =)
2007-01-10 18:53:39 · answer #5 · answered by bettyboop42_08 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a girl that i could not have said that when she masturbated alot she always wanted sex so try that
2007-01-10 18:51:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TAKE LOADS OF PILLS THE DOCTORS GIVE YOU
2007-01-10 18:51:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
get humping
2007-01-10 18:51:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋