So my 15 year old cousin told a young relative of ours that she might be pregnant and how can she get rid of it. I went away to college for two years, came back, and my sweet little cousin turned into a gorgeous bombshell that they boys kept asking out. Now i dont know what to say. I live 300 miles away from her, but we talk on myspace sometimes. How can I let her know that I'm there for her in a letter without seeming too nosy or pushy? I don't want to lecture her, she's heard that all her life. She's an orphan, mother died when she was 4 and father is in jail. I just want to be there for her as much as I can.
2007-01-10 10:10:14 · 5 answers · asked by Jae Lynn 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
In the letter reminisce about when you were her age and some of the things that you went through and some things that some of your friends may have gone through (don't give their names of course). If you have never experienced anything really deep you may want to make some things up. tell her how having your parents or maybe someone else really close to you truly helped you out by listening, advising, suggesting, or what ever you may have needed at the time and express to her that you hope and pray that she could feel that way about you, since her parents are no longer with her. Tell her how she can trust you with anything and that you will always be there for her NO MATTER WHAT! And tell her how you want nothing more than for her to be happy and successful in life. Good luck and God bless
2007-01-10 10:42:46 · answer #1 · answered by SCOOTER'S GRANDMA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-28 15:48:16 · answer #2 · answered by purgason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Support her if she is pregnant, I got pregnant at 16 and if it wasnt for my cousins calling me and telling me that everything would be ok I would have been emotional distraut. Its hard knowing that you are young and pregnant, everyone makes mistakes but you learn to live with it. I love my son and I am glad that things turned out the way they did.
2007-01-10 11:02:02 · answer #3 · answered by Kendra M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be as direct and honest as possible and support any decision that she may make. That's all I can tell you, this is a tough situation for anybody to be in. Best of luck.
2007-01-10 10:33:12 · answer #4 · answered by Gig 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
poor thing! i think you have the right idea. just tell her to be careful and just be supportive.
2007-01-10 10:34:53 · answer #5 · answered by whazzah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋