2007-01-10 09:22:48 · 110 answers · asked by tlnlz 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Not only that but maybe you are a full-fledged lesbian using drunkenness as an excuse.
2007-01-10 09:29:23 · answer #1 · answered by Kokopelli 7 · 8⤊ 5⤋
Maybe you should try it when you are sober and see if it seems right for you. Maybe you have sex with other girls because not only are you afraid of it when you are sober but even more afraid of guys. I don't know where you hang out so maybe there aren't any guys around, but your environment may have a lot to do with your behavioral patterns, like drinking. You can't get pregnant with another girl but you can still get an STD. Self esteem may be an issue for yourself that you can think about and if you suspect you have low self esteem find ways or someone who can help you improve it. Maybe you just like to get drunk and enjoy sex. I guess getting drunk would be the question if I had a daughter and not so much whether she liked sex with a male or female.... I think if I were you I'd look at the cause and not so much the symptom of what motivates you. It can be an interesting journey in self discovery with many benefits to you.
2007-01-10 09:54:18 · answer #2 · answered by Roboto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, sounds like you're bisexual. Or situationally adaptable, as I prefer to say. When you drink, it lowers your inhibitions, so you do things and cross boundaries your conscious mind normally wouldn't allow you to do. It's probably something you've thought about doing, but hadn't had the nerve to try when you're sober.
Even if it were a new guy instead of a girl, having a drink will make you relax and let go of some of the inhibitions that would otherwise prevented you from sleeping with him. That's not always a good thing, for obvious reasons!
A lesbian is primarily or solely attracted to other women, but a bisexual female is attracted, under different circumstances and to varying degrees, to both males and females. This preference can vary over time.
One of the benefits to being bisexual, is it doubles your chances for a date on a Saturday night.
2007-01-10 10:13:03 · answer #3 · answered by f117a_twinturbo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol....you are a bi-drunk!
But that also means that in the back of your head you think about girls in that way, you can't blame drinking.
That's like asking "If I only have sex when I get drunk does that mean I am still a virgin"
2007-01-10 09:53:19 · answer #4 · answered by TNL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it wouldn't. You would be considered a Les or bi if you feel love towards women in the sense of wanting to date them or marry one. Sex is casual. I did the same thing so don't worry because I personally have no feelings for women that come close to love or marriage. I like men to marry and love and you probably do too. Being drunk just highers your sex drive and you were probably with a bunch of friends anyways. Don't worry it was only experimental.
2007-01-10 09:41:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Technically Even if you have a thought of doing anything with a member of the same sex . Yes You are Bi Sexual . When Your Drunk it only enhances what you ever you really want to do.
2007-01-10 10:00:06 · answer #6 · answered by Beautiful One 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are afraid to face who you really are, so you blame it on the alcohol. It's not a horrible thing to be gay... or bi... You are still bi, you don't even have to have sex with females to be bi... You will still have feelings for them, and that is what makes you bi, not how you act on your feelings. Good luck!
2007-01-10 10:28:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. People who do things only when they're drunk aren't doing things that are against their nature - they're doing things that they feel like doing, and lack the control they normally have in place to prevent it. So, if you have sex with other girls only when you're drunk, that just means that you don't want to accept that part of yourself when you're sober, but when you're drunk, it all comes out.
It's like when you're drunk and you say something you normally wouldn't say because it would be offensive or socially unacceptable. It's not that you didn't mean what you said, it's that you normally would just refrain from saying it. Become comfortable with your sexuality and you won't have this problem, because you'll be comfortable enough to explore when you're sober and in control.
2007-01-10 09:42:58 · answer #8 · answered by devouring_wind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're either a drunk bi or a drunk lesbian. Either way, if you are hot there a bunch of guys who would like to watch.
2007-01-10 09:53:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read all your answers and got a great chuckle. As for sexual experience with the same sex when your young is normal curiousity with your gf's at a sleepover. If you go out and plan on doing these sexual acts with your gf, before you get drunk and start fooling around, then you could be. But if your a young teen with gf having fun experimenting, no. Been there, done that!
2007-01-10 09:37:44 · answer #10 · answered by flower 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you just don't have the guts yet to have sex with chick sober yes I would say bi, well only if you liked it and you can't wait to get drunk and do it again
2007-01-10 09:32:51 · answer #11 · answered by ponitail 55 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋