One of my friends, well how do i put this, is normal looking to me but apparently guys think she is soooo attractive that when ever me n her are hanging around, they always stare at her, n are all over her n flirt with her but not me...no matter wat girl she hangs with, boys only notice her...this pisses me off cuz when ever i am with her i feel un attractive n obviously jelouse (yeah yeah, but wat can i do??)...so wat should i do with this friend of mine? stop hanging around with her or wat?
2007-01-10 08:57:09 · 13 answers · asked by kitXcat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you don't want nor need mindless boys, it's not so fun being annoyed by crowds of horny men anyway. just be wonderful you and enjoy attention from maybe less but much more genuine guys.
this isnt her fault and it would be sad to drop a friend because of insecurities.
2007-01-10 09:03:28 · answer #1 · answered by Magz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay calm, girl! This had happened to me before. Just because they flirt with her does not mean that they like her. Did u ever thought that your friend is jealous of u and try to do the same thing. Plus the guys might flirt with her, but they might like u.I know this because let just say that i have a lot of experiences.
2007-01-10 17:09:42 · answer #2 · answered by ~*Banana*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no need for you to be jealous of your friend. Yes, it is human nature to be jealous of someone, but you shouldn't waste your time and energy on that. Guys are horny and they do look at your friend, but keep in mind that they might like you. There are some good qualities that make you for who you are and who knows? Your friend might be jealous of you!! Continue to be yourself and don't be someone that you're not. "Mr. Right" will find you and love you and appreciate you for who you are. Don't worry about your friend. Worry about yourself. I hope this helps. Good luck.
2007-01-10 17:59:07 · answer #3 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont even worry about it. I'll pay attention to u..............
um, dont let it get 2 u. Just dont be jealous. Be urself and someone will eventually pay attention.
I personally go after the ones that arent too out there. The less noticeable ones.
2007-01-10 17:02:29 · answer #4 · answered by flipside7thbk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't use that as an excuse to lose a good friend. You may be envious of her looks, but more than likely she's envious of somethingh you have. And it's not that more guys like her, its that the guys that are into you, are more shy when it comes to talking to you.
2007-01-10 17:25:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shame on her you will have to take her a shampoo and put something frizzy in it or you can take her to your house and say your going to the mall and give her an ugly makeover
2007-01-13 11:52:43 · answer #6 · answered by lexis919 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop hanging around her if you feel that way, there's nothing else to do.
2007-01-10 17:02:07 · answer #7 · answered by christinedaae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thought she was your friend? shouldnt get jealous of her... maybe she has sumthing that you dont? trust me it also happens to me... well my bestfriend and i (you wouldnt believe we were bestfriends) are exactly the opposite of each other (but not the looks =P)... she likes to study a lot and i dont, i love sports and she dont that kinda stuff! some of the guys that became her BF's comes to me first before to her (same as mine)... i've heard lots of compliments and they wer like "hey your friend is pretty" and i would juz say "well tnx! wut more can i say? shes my bestfriend!" haha ^.~ and im so proud of her... ^-^
2007-01-10 18:09:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st u need 2 learn how 2 spell jealous then we can talk
2007-01-10 17:34:54 · answer #9 · answered by softballchick_4348 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't hang out with someone because they get you men, you hang out with them because you like them...for pete's sake grow up!
2007-01-10 17:02:12 · answer #10 · answered by Moosha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋