there this girl at my school and i hate her to death. but for some reasone she thinks im her freind i think shes bout crazy . we got into a fight on tuesday she pushed a boy into me and steped on my foot . before i could anything she stormed back to her class(we were waiting outside the classrooms after lunch) and then she came back hit me and then i hit her back when she had me backed up onto a table and she said f*** you and turned away so whos in trouble me or her
2007-01-10 08:54:17 · 25 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Her most definitly she started it.
2007-01-10 08:56:56 · answer #1 · answered by sanj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in trouble.... she is also, but that is not your problem. You really can't change HER, but you can change your response to her, I hope. It sounds like she might be a bully, would you agree with that? You have somehow become one of her 'gang' and she is looking at you as a 'friend' from that perspective. She uses violence and aggression to keep you from straying, very much like what goes on in an abusive boy-girl relationship. You are probably afraid of what she will do to you if you break loose from her thrall. I would suggest that you get some adult (real, live) help with this-- maybe a school counselor? It doesn't sound healthy or safe, and at some point her pushing and violence will result in your being hurt badly. Moreover, it is keeping you labeled as a tough just like her, and the large numbers of your peers who might be your friend if you looked like a safe and courteous, friendly person are effected by the association with her.
My advice: find someone who will mentor you-- someone who can show you how to have a less violent lifestyle and to build on your gifts.
God bless!
2007-01-10 17:04:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YIKES, how old are you? Just hoping we are talking about Elementary or Middle School, and not High School or College.
Now why would anyone be in trouble? Was a teacher called in to calm things down?
My advice to you... Kick the ***** to the curb.. who needs drama like that in your life? School is hard enough without these petty games.
Tell her to please leave you alone.. tell her you do not consider her a friend contrary to what she might think.. tell her you do not want to be rude or hurtful.. but sometimes the truth hurts.
Good Luck
2007-01-10 17:00:58 · answer #3 · answered by Aunt Henny Penny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is, I also have a girl at school like that. She's calling my friend mean things and now, she's saying, we're lieing.There is more but you learned from it that, you have to stand up tp her your self and have friends with you. They'll NEVER bail on you no matter, how scary, or how vicous. I t's gonna get worse if you don't tell someone.
2007-01-10 17:00:14 · answer #4 · answered by Amalahbambah Redsoxgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both of u fighting is never an option for any one ! have u tried talking or asking her what the problem is ? u didn't say why she did this to u , ur telling us ur side of the story but if we heard hers it will say a little more , so u ask us who's in trouble me or her ? both of u !!! fighting like animals.....evaluation try it
2007-01-10 17:02:36 · answer #5 · answered by amal L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Question for you if she thinks you're her friend why is she hitting and pushing you ? Youre both in trouble and shes psychotic
2007-01-10 16:58:54 · answer #6 · answered by Jules 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds crazy, talk to her seriously and let her know that she is way off target with the things she does. If all else fails, talk to someone about her (teacher, principal, counselor)
2007-01-10 16:58:05 · answer #7 · answered by daschund delight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think she is... but the teacher may hear both sides and what kind of story will she tell... be prepared to hear a couple of lies... .
GOOD LUCK HON... YOU ARE IN A BAD SITUATION
No Kidding
2007-01-10 16:58:30 · answer #8 · answered by H.O.T. Dog 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both sound as though some electro-shock therapy would do each of you a world of good.
2007-01-10 16:57:13 · answer #9 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont think your in trouble if you have'nt already....i got in trouble the second i punched the girl...
girl...forget her shes crazy and you just need to beat her up real good and be done with it
2007-01-10 16:57:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that she should be in trouble because the same thing happened to me but now i think u should resolve our issues.
and go to the counselers office together
2007-01-10 16:59:09 · answer #11 · answered by AFYTON! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋