How long would it take?Girls?

Question

If a girl(close friend) had feelings for you or really fancied you(she denied it-never told you).Would it only became obvious after you told them you need to get over your feelings for them and you needed some time apart---not for good,only a short period.(due to you thinking she didnt see you in that way+you wanted to be an honest friend) YOU WERE ONLY FRIENDS---THATS WHAT SHE SAID---NEVER A COUPLE

If the girl didn't have feelings for you/fancy you,surely she would have responded to your attempts to get in touch?Yes or No?

Ideas?

How long would the girl take to get over her feelings???Would she speak to you ever again?(after you attempt to speak to them)

You don't know if they fancied you/had feelings for you---your only guessing

Not spoken for over a month

Answer 1

Take the hint. If she had feelings for you she would get in touch and have not denied that she had none when you fessed up.

By not getting in touch her actions AND the words she told you are speaking volumes..she is giving you the space you need but also she is not at present wishing to continue a reciprocal friendship with ya.

When you fancy someone you are drawn to them like a magnet - if she was in the least attracted to you then she would be responding. Unfortunately when you fessed how you felt you always ran the risk that this could end the friendship (as well as, had she felt differently, moving it onto another level..)

You took a risk and it did not pay off. Sorry that you are hurting and that you have not had your feelings reciprocated but do not contact the girl again until (which may be never) she shows some interest in being friends with you still.

All the best anyway.

Answer 2

I think that you need to let go.
She's saying clearly that she doens't want to know by not answering for over A MONTH.
Just let go.
When she'll get over it, she'll make contact.
Stop trying to contact her, as it does sound like harrassment, not like you're worried about your friendship.
Let go.xx

Answer 3

you are full of yourself..she doesnt like you..face facts..desperate.