we are trying to have a baby.... he cums in me all the time and nothing happens. we are trying to do everything we can without a doctors help.... so if you have any suggestions please feel free to help..........
PLEASE AND THANK YOU
2007-01-10 08:43:50 · 9 answers · asked by ~Zaiyonna's Mommy~ 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
If you have any suggestions that would help us without us going to the doctor please send me your answers.!!!!
2007-01-10 08:48:06 · update #1
my period is irregular so its hard to know when im ovulating...... but we only been trying for 3 months
2007-01-10 08:51:23 · update #2
have sex with a pilliow under your hips...
have sex on your most fertile day....track it down....usally the 14th day after your period....
also it would be not a bad idea to actually get a doctor's help if yall been trying over a year and nothing has worked....they can try some test..... also give u pills that usally help.....and always keep faith. ppl so don't think about it so much...they actually have the better chance...so just be healthy.... and don't focus on it so much and it might just surprise you. GOOD LUCK girl!
2007-01-10 08:47:53 · answer #1 · answered by La'Grange 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone's cycle is different. There is a myth that woman ovulate 14 days after their period begins...but that is only an AVERAGE and each month can be different. The other thing is that sperm can live inside you for up to 5 days.... so if you are having a shortened cycle one month and you have sex right after your period and you ovulate earlier than day 14 than yes, there is a chance of getting pregnant. The only way to know is to know exactly when you ovulate. There are several ways to know and some are more effective than others. Some can only predict before ovulation happens and some can only predict that is has already happened. The absolute best info I can give you is to go read a book called Taking Charge of your fertility by Toni Weschler. It will help you understand your body and all the myths about it. It will help you time when you are ovulating and the best times to conceive – or not! . It's about knowing your body and knowing when you are fertile or not.
My husband and I tried for 1 year and had no luck..… We tried ovulation predictors , laying with pillows under me for 20 min. everything……the first month that I began using the book I realized that my timing was WRONG!. We got pregnant that very first month and I am now due Feb 2, 2007. You can pick and choose what you do with your info. Good luck and don't listen the all the myths! Even if you don't get into charting and everything....it will help you in so many ways!
2007-01-10 10:24:18 · answer #2 · answered by jachooz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thank you for the last detail that your period is irregular. that really helps... my period has always been very irregular, so i couldn't really use ovulation test or predicter tests from the last day of the period. so here's what i did:
Have sex right after your period ends... not during, but 1-2 days afterwards. It is when your body is rebuilding the lining in your uterus that is needed for the new egg to attach to and grow. Do it in the morning, mid day if you can and at nighttime. make sure he is all the way in when he cums, then put a pillow under your bum while staying in bed (don't sit up or do anything for 30 minutes so the sperm will travel up not out) each time. Do this for a couple days and viola! you should get pregnant. my husband and i tried for a year and this was the only thing that worked, and it only took one try. the pillow under the bum also works no matter when you try it... it just helps more sperm succeed in making it up and in instead of staying at the entrance or coming out. GOOD LUCK!!
2007-01-10 09:09:52 · answer #3 · answered by lynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be sure you're having sex on days 9-16 of your cycle. Assuming you have a 28 day cycle, count day 1 as the first day that your period STARTS. Using a pillow to elevate your hips after sex for about 1/2 hour will help. Good luck! Also, you might make sure you're ovulating by buying an over the counter ovulation prediction kit from the drug store.
2007-01-10 08:51:18 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. Strain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop stressing about it for starters and try lots of different positions and shag as often as possible at different times of the day. Took us longer to conceive with our second child. Weren't even trying with the first one little slip-up and whammo. Try to cut out caffeine, alcohol and smoking. And make sure your man wears boxers not jocks helps keeps his little guys happy. They also have those ovulation test thingys at the pharmacy you could try too. Took us about 6 months to conceive second time ago b/f was rather hoping it would take longer : ) All the best
2007-01-10 08:57:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife got pregnant all four times by sittng like mork on the couch. Basically using gravity to help the little swimmers
2007-01-10 08:48:33 · answer #6 · answered by tokes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check this out Do it the way in which I did good me n her did its like this wait til u r off ur interval and wait one million day later then have intercourse then after that wait one million week later then do it on account that of the one million day u have intercourse it possibly two or three days later two realize if ur egg is down there But wait per week after having intercourse then do iy precisely 7 days later then u sould b pregnant Good Luck
2016-09-03 19:56:43 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married go on a nice vacation and I bet you will get pregnant. Also there is ovulex you can try. www.ovulex.com
2007-01-10 09:01:23 · answer #8 · answered by nicsgirlus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married, stop trying.
Thats the best way to get pregnant.
Its when you stop trying to get pregnant, and just have sex that it magically happens.
2007-01-10 08:46:18 · answer #9 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋