I had to go to school a while but today i went, and beyond my A levels, teachers always argue with me because i talk with my schoolmates. They say that while i was not going to school they had sience in the classroom...But i can't stop it...I found their lessons boting so i talk with my friends, or better my friends start talking with me and i continue.. :oP.....It is so difficult for me to focus on them..... Should i go and see a doctor or something?
2007-01-10 08:13:26 · 6 answers · asked by kittana! 2 in Education & Reference ➔ Primary & Secondary Education
I meant : silence in the classroom...
2007-01-10 08:30:22 · update #1
just try to meditate while they are lecturing....you can meditate on your breathing while still keeping your eyes on the professor. as hard as it is you need to learn discipline. mediation might help calm your desires to put your attention on your friends...and help you focus on the professor's lecture. if your professor is boring then there is nothing wrong with you, you shouldn't see a doctor. if your mind wanders focus on your breathing and meditate. i have had the same problem since i was a child, trust me if you can learn this method early it helps for college....the most boring professors are in college...blah
good luck
2007-01-10 09:05:35 · answer #1 · answered by lolabird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like there's anything really wrong with you. For most people, it's natural to want to talk to others. Although talking when you should be paying attention to something can be a bit of a problem, and you will need to work on your ability to focus on things.
You know yourself better than I do, so you will know more about specific things that distract you and how to work on your self-control. You could also pay a visit to a therapist, who would be able to give you more insight into this and other, practical ways that you could deal with this. Also, if you can, try to talk to your teachers about this too. Teachers are paid to give you the best education they can, and if there are any barriers to that then they should try to help you solve the problem.
2007-01-10 16:27:16 · answer #2 · answered by Toutatis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think the main thing is a maturity issue. You have to realize your education is going to be a very important thing in life. If your friends are talking to you, respond by saying we will talk at lunch or between classes or even after school, but while in class, pay respect to the teacher.
Also, you may want to be tested for ADD. If you fidget, or even doodle a lot, ask your doctor about it.
2007-01-10 16:22:32 · answer #3 · answered by James C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You need sit in a different area of the room away from your friends and have some respect for the teachers.
2007-01-10 16:22:10 · answer #4 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Reduce all small talk... and only talk when you feel very very necessary to, and just smile if feel like you have to say something
2007-01-10 16:38:42 · answer #5 · answered by Its me again 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it goes :P and try texting,...duh
2007-01-10 16:21:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋