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My husband and my bestfriend are the two closest people to me and he wants it every night and she tells me I should be wanting it everynight too. I'm 6 months pregnant with my 3rd child, but even when I'm not she tells me that she can't understand why I complain about my husband tryna get some everynight. My husband and I do it like 2 or 3 times a week. She never had a long term relationship. Is my sex drive low for my age?

2007-01-10 08:11:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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Not at all. I am 57 now but how well I remember my 20's and 30's. It could just be that being pregnant with your 3rd child takes
away a lot of your usual energy. At that age I had a very healthy sex drive, loved my husband dearly, but there were days when you are just not into it. True love isn't defined by how often you
have sex, but sometimes just being able to cuddle and just be
there for each other. Your friend should not make you feel that you are complaing because maybe she likes it every single night.
Do not base what you feel on what people think you should feel.

2007-01-10 08:37:35 · answer #1 · answered by Dot 1 · 0 0

No, your drive isn't low at all. A large number of people, from young to older, don't want it every night...and then there are some (of varying ages) that want it several times a day.

You're fine...simply because your drive isn't the same as that of others you know, doesn't mean it's odd or not normal.

2007-01-10 16:19:04 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0 0

That's actually a common problem. You just need some excitement. A Different approach to sex. Try Role Playing. Besides Foreplay can be just as fun and teasing can get ya excited to. It seems he wants sex so bad that now to you, it seems boring. Try What I have just said and if that doesn't work.....seek counseling (the free ones, not the ones you have to take out another mortgage for)

2007-01-10 16:16:57 · answer #3 · answered by Lrd 666 2 · 0 0

Everyone has a different sex drive. I'm 25 and I want it every night, actually mutiple times a day, but my boyfriend is fine with doing it every 2-3 days. It's all about compromise, sometimes he gives in and does it to please me, and gives it his all once he gets into it, and sometimes, although I think I might explode I don't bother him and just cuddle with him, making the nearness of him enough. There is nothing wrong with you.

2007-01-10 16:17:14 · answer #4 · answered by ConfusedHMD 2 · 1 0

For 6 months pregnant for the 3rd and no I would say not.

2007-01-10 16:22:37 · answer #5 · answered by blueblossom33 3 · 0 0

Everybody is different. If you don't want to have sex that often, and your husband does... There's really nothing else to do except try to work out a compromise. You're not going to be able to help it if you're not in the mood.

2007-01-10 16:16:39 · answer #6 · answered by Your Maker 3 · 1 0

Your friend is very wrong. What you are feeling is natural. Your peak is in your 30's. Thats why women in their 30's and 40's go after the younger men. Your turn is coming.

2007-01-10 16:15:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

thats actually alot for having 3 young kids,, from what i understand

2007-01-10 16:20:14 · answer #8 · answered by nodumgys 7 · 0 0

I think is normal, because your are pregnant and that normally happens. So don't worry, you will change after you give birth.

2007-01-10 17:40:48 · answer #9 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0 0

Sounds okay to me.

2007-01-10 16:15:27 · answer #10 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 1 0

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