the images, video clips. He doesn't know, I know. He won't even look at women--he clicks off gorgeous women and goes the 15ish girls. Yes, I know they are supposed to be 18 on the sites, but who monitors each pic. These girls are flat chested and very young. This is disburbing. Guys, please help me on this one. He doesn't want sex that often, and seems to want only oral sex (70% of the time)? Is this sick? I'm attractive, 5'6, nice bod. play dress up, will do any activity he wants, but nothing. He hardly touches my body when we do? What is this?
2007-01-10 08:08:45 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Addiction to porn is like any other addiction it will only get worse if he does not seek help. If he does not want help, find a real man. I wish you well
2007-01-10 08:13:28 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
OK you can actually look this up to check but I've heard tell of porn addicts. His particular "flavour" if you like is younger girls. I know these girls may look 15 to you but they really are most likely at least 18 unless it's a really dodgy site. I wouldn't panic too much at this point. He may just have a strange taste in sexual arousal. Has he always been this way? If it's new it may just be a phase. Keep an eye on it yes but don't freak out just yet. Research porn addicts. Best of luck.
PS I am male (male point of view)
2007-01-10 08:17:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
young girls can be very sexy. Boob size is not very good at proving some girl is under 18. But I guess he likes bald pussy if he is looking at a lot of porn. Are you open to shaving? Try calling up some of his favorite sites and looking at them WITH him. Both of you commenting on the various pluses and minuses. Then take a 'roll in the hay'.
Sounds like you are open enough to make him feel comfortable in confiding in you. Then TELL HIM flat out you like being stroked or rubbed in a certain way. Give him the education to please you and build his confidence he IS pleasing you.
Also could be a fascination with girls the age he first got turned down and never 'conquered'. Sort of fascination with the ones who got away.
2007-01-10 08:21:36 · answer #3 · answered by science_curious 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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Certainly seems like a pedophile-like behavior ~ not being as attracted to women but little children or young adults. It's unfortunate that he's blessed with a wife like you - attractive, willing, expressive, and adapting. If he was having normal sexual relationship with you and in addition has this tendency of viewing porn sites, that's more like a nympho that isn't probably satisfied being with one woman or having normal amount of sex. He seems to be more pedophile-ish. If you'd like to talk more about this and/or share thoughts, please feel free to IM/email me. Good luck. You definitely deserve better.
2016-04-03 02:00:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be the hottest thing this side of the mississippi, but when a guy(or girl) has a porn addiction, reality gets thrown right out the window, and it is a serious issue that needs to be addressed, it is time to let him know the YOU know, and that you do not like it, or approve of it. Denial WILL BE his first reaction, be patient in getting over this hurtle, and try counseling (both of you) if he is not wiling to respect you.
2007-01-10 08:15:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You probably realize your marriage and your relationship are in trouble. Your mate is displaying selfish, immature, and addictive behavior. If he wont attend counseling with you, you'll have to weigh the cost of your circumstances— children— debt— other options that may be available to you— and consider a trial separation and possibly divorce. These are important decisions; seek qualified advice from professionals.
Good luck. . .
2007-01-10 08:20:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is as clear as sign as your gonna get! Do you realize he has more potential of being a child molester than most other ppl. I realize you have a lot into your marriage emotionally, financially & in everyother way. But I think you should turn him into the authorities, and the ones that take child porn seriously. And consider the idea of leaving him. You deserve a man who will appreciate you in every aspect, and also fulfills your desires. This is not good!!
2007-01-11 21:58:05 · answer #7 · answered by North of Heaven 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
He most definitely has issues that I dont think are worth staying around and getting help for. I dont know how long you have been married but you didn't mention having children and I hope you dont have any with him yet. I think men like this never change and are always tempted. I dont think its worth giving up a good portion of your life trying to get help for him.
2007-01-10 08:23:17 · answer #8 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry to much. IN FACT just ask him what turns him on about these girls? thats all and play along with him (IN FACT) you should tell him you think 18 year old big cock college guys are HOT and you love to suck a few off. SEE what he says to that. REMEMBER anything he dreams about is always BETTER when he can share it WITH YOU not have to HIDE it like a CHILD does. He is not a child he is your horney husband. AND he has desires that you should share with him and him with you and yours.
2014-09-21 03:09:50 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-08 01:40:56 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋