My girlfriend has this habit of hiding sex toys under our bed and in the bedside cabinet. She sends me out to Tesco's to do the shopping and when I come home they have been moved around. The sad reality is that she won't let me come anywhere near her and is far happier using these battery powered tools. This is driving a wedge between us as I know that she would not be happy if I had a large pile of Porn Mags hidden in the bedroom and chose to look at these rather than her.
Do other guys have thus problem with their wife's and girlfriends or is it just me?
2007-01-10 08:08:37 · 21 answers · asked by Helpful 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You're not getting the job done little fella. I've never had this problem because size does matter.
2007-01-10 08:17:26 · answer #1 · answered by rex_razor69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you honestly say that you never "pleasure" yourself without her? Women are just the same as men.
But if she's not letting you near her at all then you need to talk. This isn't happening just because she has the toys. You could also try suggesting using the toys on her during sex.
2007-01-10 09:21:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We aren't "obsessed". We know what we like and need to "get off". Men sometimes just don't have the patience, technique, or smarts to do what we need to have done. Toys help. Toys and porn are not the same thing. We use toys to stimulate ourselves physically.....and they work as such. Porn stimulates men mentally. A little different, dont' you think.
2007-01-10 08:12:50 · answer #3 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She's just used a double standard to overplay her power over your sexual being. You need to talk to her about it, tell her that it creates tension that you will not stand for anymore. Either you can enjoy your "toys", enjoy her even more, or she can enjoy her toys all by herself.
2007-01-12 12:42:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand your feelings. No, we are not obsessed w it..its just that sex toys (esp dildos) feel so good...its like porn mags or video..once in a while is a real treat.
You have to talk w ur gf about it. tell her if you dont feel comfortable hun.
Between me & my bf, we COMPROMISE: i dont want 2see any porn mags around (its fair, cos he doesnt want to see any playgirl mags around too!!!), we watch porn together (yes, i like porn) & when i use the toys...he can join!:).
Heck , he like it so much that...almost all of my sex toys is a gifts from him! He said that its for me..from him...and to him:O!
Lets see from the bright side also...we women have sex toys, so when you all blokes are not around, we will only cheat..to ourselves:)
2007-01-10 10:11:30 · answer #5 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
because women always looks for excitement in the sex life. most women like to try and discover something new. i would suggest to look at your sex life together and see how can you spice your sex life .. may be it is time for you to try something new with her (use the toy on her).good luck
2007-01-10 14:42:57 · answer #6 · answered by broken heart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bad news is that great sex is preferable to sex toys (apart from occaisional use) but sex toys are way way preferable to crap sex. Sorry!
2007-01-10 08:21:41 · answer #7 · answered by KB 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm "obsessed" with them because my husband works third shift seven days a week
2007-01-11 04:12:29 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should talk to her and help with the toys!!!
2007-01-10 08:27:52 · answer #9 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try to introduce them when you are getting intimate, you should talk to her about it. Only the woman herself knows what she wants and if she doesnt give you feedback then how are you to know. Talk to her about it.
2007-01-10 08:13:51 · answer #10 · answered by Marc 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋