I haven't had a best friend in nearly 20 years and I honestly don't feel the need for one. I'm not really close to anyone but family and my spouse. I don't understand why "everyone else" hangs around with their friends. What are they getting out of that relationship that I might be missing?
2007-01-10 07:34:36 · 3 answers · asked by Fritzie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you find out the answer to that question then let me know!! I am only close to my family and my husband. He IS my best friend. I really don't miss all the B..S... that comes with having "friends". So far I don't feel I am missing out at all. I have everything I want right here.......without all the he said she said....
2007-01-10 07:43:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By nature, man is a social being.
Everybody should have a special close friend of the same sex. This is not a relative or a spouse but somebody you can tell almost anything to and not feel shy about it. It has to be the same sex as you because the other way doesn't work. I hate the corny terms for this special friend, but I'm sure you know what I mean.
I can't tell you where to look or how to find this person, but I can say if you don't have somebody like this to talk to and confide in, you're missing out. I acknowledge that you may not think its important, and I can see why you would think this. But, when/if you find a special friend, you'll see that you were wrong.
2007-01-10 07:43:33 · answer #2 · answered by txguy8800 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have no friends either when i did they caused trouble & problems trust family only so i know what you mean some people need friends others dont personal choice i surpose i choose to not too let anyone get too close so i dont get hurt by a so called best friend
2007-01-10 07:50:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋