Just worried please help?

Question

I am 16 wks prego and have been excited dispite the vomitting and nausea, I have a friend who just had a miscarridge and she was 5 months and new what she was having. She went into pre mature labor and the placenta was not connected to the baby. Now im petrified. She is doing okay and plans to try again. I feel so nervous that something might go wrong now, when I didnt think about it as much before, Does any one else have similiar story? And when exactly did you feel baby move I have felt slight flutters but people have said its too soon

Answer 1

I think every woman goes through that. I know I did. but try not to worry all you will do is get yourself worked up. I hope everything goes great for you.

Answer 2

I have one son now. After him i had 2 confirmed miscarrieges. I thought i had more in early stages but i really didnt want to know the truth if i was or not. I am now 16wks pregnent. I am so scared. I can feel slight movement with the baby now but the doc said thats probly becuase this is my second baby. Also this early along you wont feel constant move ment. I would wait till around 22 or 23 weeks to worry about movement. Just try to relax about the miscarrige thing. Its not healthy for the baby to be stressed out all the time. Things will happen when they should. If its in gods plan for you to have a baby you will. Thats what i keep telling my self. The lord does everyything for a reason. Good luck and just try to relax and enjoy your pregnancyy.

Answer 3

Don't let your friends misfortune stress you out. It's really bad for the baby. All of your concerns should be discussed with your doctor but as a mother of two I know all the scary things that can go through a first time mom to be mind. You must remember that your baby can sense your moods so try to keep in good spirits. As for the flutters in your tummy, it is the baby!! Thats about the time I felt my second one start moving. Amazing feeling isn't it!! Good Luck :-)

Answer 4

You will worry and worry and the more you are told not to the more you will worry. I will not tell you not to worry - because you will. It is all part of becoming a mommy and it won't end when the baby is born, goes to school, graduates from college or even gets married. You are Mom and you will worry.
Sorry, I can't help you stop worrying but I'm at least letting you know that it is natural to do so.
I'm sorry to hear about your friend. That is very sad and traumatizing to hear when you are also pregnant. When I was pregnant several people insisted on telling me the worst horror stories. Try to ignore them or kindly ask them to save the story for a more appropriate time (like when you child is in college).

Answer 5

Every mom goes through that. I had an ectopic my first pregnancy and when we finally got pregnant again I was terrified. Just try not to worry about it so much. That will put stress on you and the baby. And no, it's not to soon to feel little flutters in your stomach. Some women feel it sooner than others. But try to relax, and take it easy for you and the baby. Good luck, and congrats.

Answer 6

Welcome to the world of motherhood. You will not stop worrying about this precious child from now on. A very high percentage of pregnancies go just fine. A very, very few have complications. Try not to start looking for any signs of problems although I know it is difficult. You could be feeling your baby flutter right now...usually around 18 weeks but sometimes sooner depending on the amount of pregnancies you have had and your body type. I'm sure everything will be fine. Just enjoy this wonderful journey

Answer 7

i am 34 weeks pregnant with my first. i felt the baby move for the first time at 20 weeks. My friend went in to early labor during her 7th month. her placenta also separated form the wall of the uterus. What happen to you friend and my friend is rare try hard not to be stressed by it. just take it easy and good luck.

Answer 8

Im sorry for your friend. Your feelings are normal. I was scared until about 24 weeks. There was nothing wrong I was just paranoid. I felt my baby move for the first time at 17 weeks. I've heard alot of people say it can happen earlier. Good luck!!!!

Answer 9

I had a similar thing happen to me with my sister in law. We were both pregnant and about 51/2 months along and she just lost her baby. After that I was completely paranoid and it was all for nothing. I delivered a healthy baby girl. Sometimes miscarraiges happen. I also felt this baby move at 15 weeks so if you think that you are feeling it, you probably are. Talk to your doctor about your feelings, they are very understanding. I mean after my sister lost hers, I had to go in just to hear the heartbeat and they were always very nice to me. I hope this helps!

Answer 10

All I can say is try not to worry, I am 5 weeks along and my close friend miscarried last week and she was only 2 weeks in front of me, it really firghtened me as this baby is now one of the most important things, and I really dont want to loose it. but really there is nothing we can do, we just have to stay calm, go to regular checkups, and eat healthy live healthy and pray or hope that everything goes ok. They say after 12 weeks your chances of miscarrying drops to 4 percent

Answer 11

okay, first, dont stress out, its not good for your child!
im sure you are going to be okay. when i was prego, people scared me too. but in the end it was all okay! just keep calm, because if you stree, there is more chances of you having complications!!
i first felt my son move at about 4 months... it was definatly the silliest feeling... i wont ever forget it. dont let people tell you that its too early. you will be the only one who will know for sure!!