Thinking I might have made a mistake, in my career of choice?

Question

I thought I always wanted to work in the medical field. I am doing my internship right now. But the more I think about it I think I am not doing what I was meant to do. But I am getting older, and I really still don't know what I want to do. Has or is anyone got this same problem? And if so what did you do about it? I feel so worthless sometimes. PLease help......Cannot get it together.

Answer 1

For now, continue to work on your internship. You've come this far, and say that you haven't another idea. When you eventually figure out what you want to do, you can then look into changing, while still having your medical background for support.

Answer 2

My friend went through a similar experience. Her parents were both in the medical field and expected her to follow suit. Now that she is graduated and in the medical field, she realizes that she is where she does not truly want to be.

I really believe that God has gifted each and every person uniquely and that every person has a passion to do something in life.

There are some good books to read, that will encourage you in the pursuit of finding your "calling" of what you are meant to do as a career:

1. "Following Your Dreams--Chicken Soup For the Soul" (Canfield and ?? I can't remember the other author)

2. "Life Keys--Discover Who You Are" (Kise)

There are also some good websites that I have listed below that help you pinpoint what your passions are and what career you would be best suited for.

I've often heard that you should put on the thinking of a small child (because to children, anything can happen if you believe) and ask yourself, "What would I want to be doing if I had the talent, money, anything I needed, etc. for something and if I knew that I couldn't fail at it?" I've heard that the answer to that question is very close to what you are supposed to be doing, because it reveals the passions of your heart--a type of work that you can pour your heart into.

As a Christian, I used to think that I was expected by God to become a pastor or missionary or something. But then I realized that there were people in the Bible that God used who were very creative and crafty. Others made linens and others were fishermen. Some were involved in the government and others were businessmen.

The point that I am trying to make is that we are all unique and different. Each and every person has a different personality, different passions, different likes/dislikes.

It is important to find these things:

1. What are you most passionate about? (What drives you--i.e., what motivates you? What do you get excited about? What is one thing that you can't imagine life without?)

2. What are your talents? (What are you good at naturally? What subjects in school came easily to you?)

3. How do you want to see the world changed? (How can you use your talents and passions to make that change happen?)

4. What do you enjoy doing? (Hobbies, etc? What doesn't seem like "work" to you?)

5. Are you willing to work hard to accomplish your dreams? (Many people give up at this point--anything that is worth anything takes time and effort. You reap what you sow. Are you willing to keep going and not give up? How much do you want your dream?)

6. I don't know if you're a Christian or not, but if you are, ask yourself, "Is this something that God will bless?" Am I doing anything wrong against His Word or is this something that is a blessing somehow? (Even if you're a secretary, or mechanic or whatever, you are being a blessing to someone). :)

I hope that you find the thing to do that you are passionate about and I hope that you find joy and excitement in what you will do. I would stick with your current job, while you return to school and work day by day towards your dream.

There is a great story in the Chicken Soup book that I recommended. It is a story about an 80 year old woman that returned to school to get her college degree because it had always been her dream. It's never too late to dream. I once heard a quote that said something like,

"Reach for the moon. Even if you don't reach it, you'll land among the stars."

I hope that you won't feel worthless. You are a precious life and your life has meaning. You have something very special in you that nobody else has and you will be used to touch the heart of the world in a very special way. Every person is uniquely gifted and you are no different. I hope that your dreams are re-lit and that you have the gift of hope again.

It may feel scary to start a change now that you're "a little older", but you can still have courage. There is a quote from Princess Diaries that I love to repeat to myself. It says, "Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgement that there is something more important than fear."

I don't know if you're a Christian or not, but there is a verse from the Bible that I find especially comforting. Jeremiah 29:11 says, "For I know the plans that I have for you" says the LORD, "Plans for good and not for evil. Plans to give you a future and a hope."

I believe that God has a perfect plan laid out for your life and it's not too late for you. Just because you're getting older doesn't mean that you're not important anymore. Be blessed :)

Answer 3

I agree with the others, you have come this far you should finish. Besides, once done with the internship and you have your own job in this career you may find it enjoyable. Also, you will always have this to fall back on in the future. Once you are done with the internship, give it a good shot. Work in the this career for at least a year than decide. People change careers several times in their lives these days. Many start new careers way into their 50's.

Answer 4

At least you know what you don't want to do. That's a start. To find out what you would like to do, you could write a list of what you think your strentghs and weaknesses are. Think about what subjects you enjoyed and which ones you didn't. Decide if you would like to work in a cubby, from home, office but travel a lot.
There is more, but basically, you would want to profile yourself (you must know about who you are). Once you have this done, then you can look for different career fields. I find it easier than looking at different professions first.

I was in your situation back in school where i thought I wanted to be an engineer (still kind of do, but not nearly as much), but decided to change to a field that played into my strengths better.

Also, for this truly to work, you should ignore money for the time being. It is more important to be happy with your job.

Answer 5

The most interesting people you will ever meet don't know what they want to be. As you get older, you will realize that you don't always want to be doing the same thing. You may someday find yourself in a restaurant in Paris, waiting for your husband to come meet you. One can't really say where life will take them. Don't see this as a failure or a letdown. As you gain more information about something you have a better understanding with which you can evaluate it. You know more about your field now, and you're feeling as though it isn't you. That's life. Many people are in a constant search of what they want out of life. The importance isn't so much that you do something, but that you constantly follow those things that you believe. It's your life, realize that your directional compass has shifted, and change your life.

If you aren't doing the number one thing you'd rather be doing in your life, DO SOMETHING ELSE.

Answer 6

There's no set age when you have to have everything figured out. Some of the most interesting people I know have no clue. Don't force it, don't spend your time worrying about where you think you should be in your life. I went to school for criminal justice, I did an intern with Michigan probation and parole. I figured out after all that, that "that" was not what I wanted to do. Since then I've tried all sorts of professions and had more fun not knowing what I was going to do with my life versus having a set path. Sometimes you just have to roll with the punches in life, you'll figure stuff out along the way.

Answer 7

First of all don't feel worthless that you don't know what you want out of life yet. Many people have been in careers for years and still don't know what they want to do. I can relate...being currently in that position myself. I went to school to work in the environmental field and have decided to possibly pursue a career in education. It is hard and very discouraging at times. Just remember you've got your whole life to figure it out. Do lots of research....go to the library, look online, take career tests, talk to people...do you have any interests? You'll figure it out...don't worry....I have a feeling life will lead you right where you need to be.....good luck!!

Answer 8

You have made it this far. Finish your internship and then look for a job. Give it at least a chance. You are never to old to try something new, just need to have the will power to change. Try it, if you don't like it, look for soemthing else. If you at least have work experience you can find another job/career easily.

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Answer 10

There are many doctors that changed careers some became engineers and are now medical engineers some like an acquaintance of mine is a consultant to various companies and government but does not practice medicine now.