see me and this guy anthony were together for almost a year we broke up twice and now were not back together but saturday he called me and he asked me to come over so i did and well we endedup just having sex again and he hasnt called me since that night and since im suspened i havent seen him at school and ive tried calling him twice to see whats going on...and i even texted him asking him was it just a booty call or are we actually getting back together...and no reply...i love him and i miss him so much just i dont want him to just want me for sex. what should i do?
2007-01-10 06:15:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Government
Why is this in the government section?
2007-01-10 06:22:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drop him like a hot potatoe. Concentrate on becoming a better student / person etc. You have your whole life ahead of you and at this time in your life decisions you make are crucial to where you are headed. Remember every decision you make will have a consequence be it a good one or bad one. So make right choices for yourself and go on to do well. You remember, are the president of a company called YOU. Take care of YOU. Make wise decisions for YOU. Because otherwise YOU will have difficulty in life. How fortunate you are to have this company in your control right now. Make YOU a success.
Skip the boys for a while as they think of only one thing right now and that is sex... it is not love for you or YOU... and he (they) dont care what happens to you either. Once you realize boys will do it to anyone and lie to tell you they care (because they are at this age all about hormones) -- you'll be better off. It is just the way it is and if you realize this to take care of YOU for a few years you can go on to do good things for yourself. Be celebate for a while and get to know who you really are and what you need to do for you to have a good life. Heavens, you deserve it.
Go to a Junior College , see a councelerThey are there to help you make good choices. Get a profession or go onto the university for your bachelers degree. It is not a dificult as you may think. You can do it and you can do in financially(schools have $$ help for you) The sooner you wise up and think about YOU, your life will grow into, by your making good smart decisions, a life that is happy, provided for, and loved by YOU and others. Do it for yourself. Please start today. Don't let yourself down... and if you fall stand back up and get on track right then and there.
2007-01-10 06:34:37 · answer #2 · answered by lindasue m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he constantly calling? If so then don't call him. If he's just called those two times then just call back to find out what he wants. It's happen to me with both my high school boyfriend and my college boyfriend. Each called me over 10 years later to see what I was up to. Both were bad break ups but since I was so over it I had no problem getting in touch with them. Maybe you should figure out why you're so apprehensive to call him. Does the relationship still bother you? For all you know he could be calling to apologize.
2016-05-23 05:17:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should pray, God help us all......You've been suspended from school and the guy you love considers you as nothing more than a pin cushion. Get some help, go to church, get a friend who will tell you the truth - always. If you are needy you will be used and abused, to get respect you start by respecting yourself. Sorry if this is a lecture, I'm old and never did relate to well to people.
2007-01-10 06:37:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to wake up, forget him, and move on or just change your Yahoo screen name from Liz to Booty Call Girl. Cause thats all he is using you for.
2007-01-10 06:30:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should be date you? He can call you anytime he wants to sleep with you so why bother having you as a girlfriend? It's sounds harsh, but you need to move on and find someone that wants you for you, not you for sex.
2007-01-11 05:35:49 · answer #6 · answered by Cyber Stalker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's got you trained. Free sex and he doesn't even have to be your boyfriend. The sad thing is, a REAL boyfriend probably looked you over and saw what you are doing, and decided not to take a chance with you.
2007-01-10 06:20:08 · answer #7 · answered by Kacky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been threw that, he was just looking to get some, you need to just move on, he is not worth it. He is just going to mess with your head and heart. You are young, have fun, meet other guys. You'll realize in a few years that you don't really love him.
2007-01-10 06:22:16 · answer #8 · answered by strtat2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not in 10 years you'll have trouble remembering this guy's name. Forget him. He's blatantly using you. Move on!
2007-01-10 06:20:45 · answer #9 · answered by cornbread 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop trying to reach him- he knows how to reach you and obviously doesn't want to. c'mon, you knew what was going to happen before you went over- shame on you! unless you like being used, i suggest putting this behind you and working on getting over this guy.
2007-01-10 06:22:42 · answer #10 · answered by Lluvia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋