Being bi - what exactly eh?

Question

i believe so, and that i am too, but my mates don't really buy into it and think i'm a gay guy that wants to be straight or a straight guy who'd screw anything to get his knacks off, yeah, and i wanted to know, what do you guys think? any of you bi too?

question specifically at guys because i read somewhere women are more "naturally" bisexual-er than men. any of you ever fancy dez with his hair messed up and his shirt out laughing at the back of the class while thinking giselle by the window was the hottest french exchange-student chick ever?

Answer 1

I consider myself gay, but if a female made a pass at me, I'm not sure I'd turn her down.

Answer 2

pure female bisexual here.
but that doesnt mean you dont take me seriously.
very experienced.
here goes.
alright buddy, being bisexual is quite different from a regular lesbian or gay, why ? because one person is attracted to BOTH sexes and not just one.So if you wanted to make sure you're BI, you'd be equally attracted to both.Eg, if you saw a cute couple make out, you'd be turned on by the male AND female, not just one of them.
see the thing is, some men are naturally attracted to both sexes, and it's in the form of admiration more then anything else, few admit it because no one likes to be gay bashed.
its up to you to find out whether you're Pure gay, pure bisexual, it really depends.
i suggest doing a few tests.
watch some porn, sure you already do, but watch different classes of it, regular, lesbian, gay, alright, keep in mind what gets you off first, and make sure you got top quality interesting ones.
after that, ask a few friends for help, find a girl and a Gay guy who'd be willing to help, and go out on "physical" dates with them both.see what happens, see how you react.
with me, i wouldnt mind sleeping with a female, love it in fact, but the real satisfaction comes from a male, and i could never fall in love with a female.
what about you, have you thought the whole thing through?
would you rather sleep with a male then a female?
O_o
think about it.
you're the only one who can chose what you are.
simple advice..here,
dont be in denial
latent homosexuality sucks.
Rave
p.s
giselle as in giselle budachen? yeah she's hot..
i knew there was something wrong with me in the girls changing rooms, i always was in a huge hurry to get dressed, and run out.
if i had known that i was bisexual then.i'd be the last one out.
..loved peeking intot he guys changing rooms, specially after swimming!..men comparing sizes is as funny as it is turning on.

Answer 3

Lots of people, both gay and straight, don't believe bisexuals exist. They think they are lying or in denial or confused or in a 'phase' or indecisive or greedy. It's NOT true. Bisexuality is a true, valid, real sexual orientation. Don't let anybody try to convince you otherwise- you know what you want.

It's been said that women have more bisexual capacity than men, but I don't believe that. I do believe that women tend to be more open-minded about it and are even encouraged to experiment with their sexuality, whereas men are not. So I think that has more to do with it than anything else.

Be proud of your bisexuality.

P.S.- I completely do not understand the last sentence of your question.

Answer 4

personally (but im most likely not right and your going to hate me for this) but I think bi people are straight people who want attention but dont want to give up what they truely want ie the opposite sex. Where as gay people r gay.

Answer 5

i see you asked for guys but whatever... why do people have to always label things. as long as you like/love the person why do you have to be put under a certain catagory. why not just go with the flow

Answer 6

Everybody's bisexual.