i have a friend who was told by his wife (during a argument) that he only had a small penis ,since which he has not had sex at all,and when masturbating can only get semi hard,he says he is frightend of being ridiculed again,
2007-01-10 06:05:55 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
LOL, well if it is true it is true, I am sure he had some idea it was small if it really is, so is it really small or was she just saying that
2007-01-10 06:09:21 · answer #1 · answered by Kelly H 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
What a cruel trick life has played on some guys to be born with small ***** no bigger than a child's even in adulthood!
Believe me, he already knows he has an abnormally small penis and is insecure about it, and doesn't need any comments about it. As hard as it is, keep them to yourself.
Seriously though, even though it may shock you too discover your lover or husband has a small penis the first time you see it, I say no. As the saying goes, "It's not what you have, but what you do with it or lack there of". Why hurt the guy's feelings if you love everything else about him? Besides that, sooner or later in life, you're most likely to give up sex anyway, so who cares about size?
A guy with a small penis can have just as many kids as a large sized one.
Did you know it's much more easier and I found more pleasurable to have oral sex with a guy with a small penis than one with a regular or large one? I let my lover know he was the best I ever had just for that reason. What an ego boost it must have been for him.
2007-01-10 06:20:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OUCH! I don't think a woman should outright tell a man he is too small. There are ways you can do that by suggesting stuff like pumps, pills, etc... I am sure most women do not want to be told they have a big vagina. And I do not blame him for not wanting to have sex with her, he would probably feel inadequate. She ruined it big time! Maybe they need to seek counseling so he can get past it, and they can move on in their marriage. and if he can't get through it, maybe he needs to find someone who doesn't care about size. Good luck! :)
2007-01-10 06:22:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen that is just a question to find a right women.may be his wife is to big and not he is to small,anyways doesn't matter the size the important is how you use.if you think that the size of a penis is so important how you think some men and women satisfy another woman just with their mouth.tell him don't worry that is the only way a woman can make a man upset,and usually works if you are not secure of your self.tell him to tell her if she is not happy,just leave and he will find somebody that will appreciate him as he is.
2007-01-10 06:18:22 · answer #4 · answered by realistic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, that sounds like a professional should talk to the guy. He may need counseling. The woman has a right to say what she wants. Legally anyway. But if she said it in rage, sometimes you need to say sorry. Riducule is something we all have to go through. Some of us take it differently.
I have heard make up sex is good and maybe thats the answer.
2007-01-10 06:16:43 · answer #5 · answered by LESLIE M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was the guy I would get rid of all her stuff and when she complains just say"I GUESS I'M A BIG DICK NOW."
She went too far and the only way he can get his self respect back is to be a jerk.
FYI, women if you every wonder why there are so many jerks in the world, its because of this stuff. I've seen many "nice guys" become jerks because of women being cruel.
2007-01-10 06:54:01 · answer #6 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That poor man. Women tend to use that card when the arguing gets out of hand. Of course, the problem could be with the wife. Perhaps she is just too wide. I would suggest to your friend not to let it get to him. Sounds like the wife is a freak to me. Thank you.
2007-01-10 06:13:24 · answer #7 · answered by cookie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never ever do that. Thats a really cruel thing to do nd you can't take it back. If it has a grain of truth, he'll be hung up about it forever and it could wreck a relationship. Its as bad as making up something during an argument that a woman will fret over, such as 'You have a fat a*s and everyone laughs about it behind your back'.
2007-01-10 06:10:53 · answer #8 · answered by ricochet 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well that was cruel of her.
Wonder if he is not to small but a certain part of hers is not
to big.lol
From what i hear from more experienced friends is
that if it is small it is not a big deal if he knows how to use it.
I would say she was just looking to hurt him.He needs to ask her why she said what she did.Now that they have stopped arguing.
Most likely it had nothing to do with his size but something else all together.Women know that is the quickest and easiest way to hurt a man.He needs to talk to her.
2007-01-10 06:12:38 · answer #9 · answered by southernbell_1313 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How big do women want a penis to be? To my opinion it is not the size of a penis that solely generates pleasure, it's how pleasantly naughty the penis is. Would women like to hear men tell them that they (men) have to wear a life-jacket not to drown in their wide pu**y? I don't think so!
2007-01-10 06:13:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a thing to say to your spouse. I don't blame him for feeling the way he does, what guy wouldn't. There are products such as Viagra on the market.. If he is good man, treats her well, then she should count her blessings. She needs a reality check. He needs to find a good woman.
2007-01-10 06:13:26 · answer #11 · answered by daisy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋