Why do boys have sex with girls, but then they leave them when they get pregnant?

Question

and let them struggle on their own.

Answer 1

Immature, irresponsible, lack of parenting from their Mom and Dad, scared, lack of education, etc. Stupid yes. They need to own up if they are gonna have sex, they should know the consequences of having sex equals having babies, so if they dont' want a baby, they should know better and not have sex.

Answer 2

I believe that guys want sex... However that is only part of the answer to this question... I believe that guys (especially young guys) are scared of pregnancy & ALL the responsibility that come with it & being a father. Most, but not all of that fear is irrational, perpetuated by horror stories from other friends and friends of friends. Lack of parenting or fathers in their lives, can also contribute to their lack of character & knowledge & respect for women & their bodies. As far as struggling women & mothers go, they too chose to participate in creating that child. That which doesn't kill you only makes you stronger & sometimes smarter (though not always)! I feel for single mothers, I can only imagine how difficult it must be. But you are better off with out a flakey looser around anyway. Good Luck & many prayers!

Answer 3

It explains the dark side of the male society. Unpardonable though this offence is, there is unfortunately nothing that can stop it from happening.

The nature made man more a sexual creature than a woman. And woman was left in a dilema unable to decide whether to have sex with man or not. Even the institution of marriage which was supposed to provide woman social security hasn't always worked as we often see breach of marriages.

Woman needs to be alert and cautious always and follow methods of safe and protective sex. But even then, there is nothing much this society can do to ensure that men wont abandon their women after getting them pregnant unless men realize and respect the value of motherhood.

Answer 4

are boys and girls allowed to have sex never mind a baby? You mean young men and women dear.

your statement is obviously the thesis of a psychological study as it is based on your interpretation. If a couple have the ability to logically resolve issues surrounding a new birth then they wont split up. Judging by the way you outline your question as a statement of fact, i would advise you not to get pregnant.

Babies impose restrictions on a relationship and if both parties cant handle these "restrictions" then they shouldn't have sex in the first place.

Some men are downright rude, unthoughtful, selfish and still insist on going out with the boys. But not all, some men will enjoy being a father and all that comes with it, and still find time to love their partner, though it seems there are not many around these days.

Answer 5

because they are immature and dont want the responsibility of caring for a child because they wont be able to go off with their mates and things like that. and also boys are just like that..they have one offs with people or dont want a "long term relationship" and freak out if the girl gets pregnant. the girl should be freaking out more Id say because of labour and morning sickness and everything.

Happened to me at the age of 14 by mistake. had to cope. now 20 child is six but I wouldn't trade her for anything in the world and im soo glad i had her

Answer 6

Boys are usually unwilling (when they are still boys and not men) to accept any responsibility for protected sex, plus there seems to be a stigma about it being uncool, but then when it happens they panic. Boys are much less mature than girls, and grow up at a much slower rate, so to be told they then have to grow up at twice the rate, doesn't ever go down well! Best thing is to always ensure you are protected against pregnancy amongst other things!

Answer 7

The fact that couples seem to split up on the arrival of a child depends on both parents abilities to realise and cope with all aspects of looking after a new life.

If the couple are young then they may lack the experience of a mature approach to problems and end up arguing over trivial things. If the couple were to plan ahead, then most issues could be resolved before the arrival of the little babe making happier surroundings for all.

It's not just obvious changes like who's turn is it to feed, wash, nurse etc but mum and dad should watch out for each other too and learn each others body language which can relate how well they are coping. Mum shouldn't have to go it alone nor should she have to ask for help.

Answer 8

They just want sex, but freak out when the girl's pregnant and decide to run off because they are immature and can't handle the responsibility of becoming a father.

Answer 9

Your key word was BOY'S but don't get me wrong some men do the same thing. I feel that u both have to be old enough first of all an when y'all got that accomplished, U have to be mature enough to handle u & your baby yourself even if he's there or not. Don't ever want to struggle with or without a man.
P.S I hope your not in that situation.

Answer 10

Because us boys have a fear of commitment and since we're not the ones carrying the baby we don't really give a $hit. It would really freak me out if my gf got pregnant but i'd never leave her. I love her too much...

Answer 11

I think you are putting everyone in the same boat here, I know i would never do that and I know others that would never as well, Lets also not forget it takes two to tango. Its as much your responsibilty as it is ours to make sure your using protection so you cannot blame just men for getting yourselves into that situation,