2007-01-10 05:15:34 · 31 answers · asked by RED ROSE 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why do women do the same thing?
Same reason with some variations.
Plus, you picked him, why don't learn more about the person you are with before hooking up. Maybe you are not good . . . and he wanted something better . . . and he didn't have the balls to tell you, because it would hurt your feelings.
Maybe you stop doing the little things you used to do . . . and his misses them and he is getting it from someone else, who is treating him like you used to do.
Don't blame men . . . blame yourself . . . you allowed this to happen. Plus recent statistics show, in most states, the difference between men and women is 3% (as an average) . . . in some state women cheat more, others men cheat more.
2007-01-10 05:25:54 · answer #1 · answered by Tag Your It 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
They claim that their libido is far stronger, that they are stimulated easily by sight and it's a fantasy that is perpetuated by the world we live in today. Personally, I think everyone has a choice. A lot of men make stupid decisions because they're horny. There are a few men out there who have the common decency to leave you before they do something with another woman. But at the end of the day, they like to have their cake and eat it too. Dump cheaters straight away so that you don't perpetuate positive reinforcement when it comes to behaving badly. If all women decide to not settle for terrible treatment, men will have to evolve or they'll be alone, without any sex, ever.
2007-01-10 05:24:13 · answer #2 · answered by Vena cava 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As hard as it may be to believe...All men ARE NOT cheaters and liars. There are actually men out there who truly want a serious relationship with 1 women.
Unfortunately, for some reason us women don't seem to be attracted to those men, so alot of them are single.
Truth is, we are all born imperfect and men & WOMEN both sometimes lie & cheat, the solution would be for you to search out someone who is able to compress there wrong desires & be truly faithful.
Try someone religious!
2007-01-10 05:25:27 · answer #3 · answered by Mommy of 3 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not all men are cheaters and liars. You need to try to understand why you are attacted to this type of man. Are you looking for a fixer-upper? If so, you're going to waste a lot of time.
There are some good ones out there!
2007-01-10 05:20:33 · answer #4 · answered by katydid 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because women seldom want to have enough sex to fulfill their needs...most cheating goes on when marriages have alot of other things get in the way of the sex life (such as kids/busy jobs/wives being too tired or not in the mood every) . hence, the guy starts paying attention to girls who are more willing to service him. i know more honest and good men who truly love their wives who have cheated for no other reason than the lack of a sexually available parter than i like to admit.
men will have sex whenever they can - be it dead on their feet tired or with multiple broken limbs. women need everything to be right. this is fine when the relationship is easy and boyfriend/girlfriend have nothing else to worry about. the girl is more willing to be sexual more often.
girls who are reading this and saying that they're totally satisfying their man: let's see after 10-15 years of marriage and kids. if someone cheats in a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship, it's like a low attention span version of this. they haven't considered themselves mature and ready enough for marriage.
the last thing i'll say is that the woman is DEFINITELY wronged here, but this victim bullsh*t is ridiculous. there's usually a clear pattern before a man cheats - and it takes two married people to make that pattern; not just one horny/sexually frustrated guy.
2007-01-10 05:40:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sorry you feel that way. not all men are liars and cheaters. my husband is good and honest and i am the only woman that he would ever want to be with. there are good men out there
2007-01-10 05:20:35 · answer #6 · answered by Inez 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm going to tell you the same as I tell everyone else who asks the same question...we don't all cheat and lie. You just have to find the right guy. And also, women do their fair share of cheating and lying. It's not always the men who are at fault.
2007-01-10 05:32:40 · answer #7 · answered by BigJake418 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-30 13:16:03 · answer #8 · answered by lobos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you cant say all some are i mean like 70% of them are cheaters and liars so all im saying is that its really hard to find a man thaat will actually make a comitment !
2007-01-10 05:21:03 · answer #9 · answered by LoVeR** 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont single men out each man is an indiviual its not all men its jus some so try and not single men out woman can be the same way..men get a bad wrap alot and i dont feel its fair..i have had jerks for b/fs and a husband that was horrible but i judge the indiviual not the gender
2007-01-10 05:20:34 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Constance♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋