Another for the men.?

Question

Do you still think it's important to tell your wives they're attractive? How often do you go out by yourselves without the kids? What kind of "romance maintenance" do you do in your marriage?

And, what do you expect out of your wives?

Answer 1

bjs = compliments
when she quit, so did I

Answer 2

Absolutely do. Though I honestly haven't done that enough of telling her she's attractive. But I do think it's important for every man to do. I do go out once in a while without the family when it's mostly work-related parties or lunches.

I am bad at remembering important dates. So, I have it all up in my email calendar to remind me of the days that are important to her. Buy her flowers or affordable gifts when they matter. Every once in a while do go out to dinners or the movies with the family.

In bed, I am a natural giver than a taker. I give her massages. I do love to tease and be playful when we get some time. I try to be expressive and be passionate when it comes to sex. I know she likes it when we take the time and not rush rush. I engage in tons of foreplay and after-play a lot.

Kissing is important to me. It's a great expression of passion and intimacy. Do enjoy doing that a lot. At least once a week I do take the time to even give her a very relaxing, satisfying masturbation ~ something she likes a lot. Expect her to be as expressive and passionate.

Answer 3

It's very important for both to communicate. In my past marriage, my ex never told me how great of a kisser I was so I very seldom kissed her. Actually she asked why I never kissed her anymore...guys need a more direct question/answer.
It is very important to tell your wife she is hot or looks great in that dress or has a beautiful glow about her in the mornings. Date night is always great but so is a getaway for a night or two.
I don't expect just because she cooks or cleans or takes care of the kids that that is all I want out of a good marriage. Be aggressive sometimes and initiate sex with him(grab his manhood and tell him you want him). Don't wait for him to ask you for a bj, do it on your own. There's so much more but work duties are calling!

Answer 4

Its important to keep them updated. Just look at her with smily face, thats it... no words necessary if smile is genuine... & you get a genuine smile if you really love her.

Maintain the dating system. Date her as you did before marriage; it will maintain interest; I can understand its hard, but give it a try. Ask some friends to join you sometimes.

Women like adventure, just surprise her time to time. 99% of the time, its male's fault in a relationship as they dont really understand her; dont be a sex maniac. So, just analyse what she likes, do it, you are done. To the controversy, my first (the only) relationship broke because I did what she liked... once she demanded to break up & not to speak... to her happiness, I immediately left the place with no words & I am well informed that she is happy... & when she is happy, I am happy too.

I'd expect care & faith from my wife (if any).

Answer 5

One thing for men is to not play games with their wives and refuse them sex when they want it and then wonder a while later why she doesn't want anything from you any more. I say men need to take advantage of it while the going is good. Thats what makes women feel attractive to their men.

Answer 6

I go to work full time, work full time, and have homework in between I expect my wife keep the house clean, meals ready, and keep herself attractive. I shouldn't have to tell her nor spend time with her, if I'm working my butt off doing the above, she's the one that should be supportive and understanding, not me!!

Answer 7

yes it is important to tell and show her it keeps the marriage interesting and less of a chance for divorce

Answer 8

basically tell them that you love them.........and once in a while comment on that you still "look hot".......or some comment like that.

Answer 9

Of course it is.