If you were cleaning your 13 yr old son's room and you found hard core porn...I mean triple x videos...hidden in there? Respond please!
2007-01-10 04:38:18 · 20 answers · asked by emotional blonde 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
YIKS! It is one thing to want to see some porn at that age. It is all hormones but for a 13 year old to be watching that kind isn't good. What is that teaching him about women? I would want to know where he got this from! I think you should talk to him. Maybe not bring up the tapes yet bec then he will get defensive and then hide his things + he wont trust that you wont go in his room again and look for other things. You need to talk to him about respecting women and how there are things out there that make women do things that shouldn't be done. Does he have a father who could talk about how to treat women? I think you should keep checking his room though make sure more dont show up. If so then you need to take it away and then have the serious talk with him about sex and how what he is watching isn't real life. He will end up thinking all women are like what he sees on the screen and be disappointed when he sees real women. This is a hard one to have to deal with! Good luck.
2007-01-10 04:49:19 · answer #1 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down with him and have a discussion about sex. I know it sounds cheesy to everyone, but it's what you need to do. You don't want to have your 13 year old have this be his education on sex. He needs to know facts and not learn about sex through porn.
Oh yeah.. then you should probably take it away, because he's legally not "old enough".
2007-01-10 12:45:31 · answer #2 · answered by yblur 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd ask him to hide them better next time.
Seriously though, I would explain to him that he is too young to view these acts, and throw the video away.
2007-01-10 12:42:43 · answer #3 · answered by Pirate Hooker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I'd take it away, and have a nice chat with him. Nothing drastic though. It's not the end of the world.
2007-01-10 12:45:11 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tough question... i would talk to him very gently about it. LoL the embarrassment for him is going to be enough to curb his "curiosity" .. i think it is totally normal for a young man to be interested in that . he probably got it from one of his friends. explain to him that it normal to be interested but that you don't want that in your house. but i wouldn't be too worried about it OR you could just take the movies and put a disney movie in its spot ... and see what happens
2007-01-10 12:45:12 · answer #5 · answered by ♠ JƏSSƏ'S GiRL ♠ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say, let him explore and relax about it. How else is he going to differenciate between what he likes and doesn't? Curiousity killed the CAT,mom, not the kitten
2007-01-10 12:45:53 · answer #6 · answered by HiRene 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just take it and give it back to him in person. just be like - i was cleaning your room today and found these. i think the embarrassment would be enough.
2007-01-10 12:44:27 · answer #7 · answered by Your Angel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think all of us guy have had that type of stuff in our rooms one time or another. I think all my Friends had that stuff. Just put it back. It may be time you have that sex talk with him.
2007-01-10 12:45:42 · answer #8 · answered by daveyboyone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 years old, he's on a early start. i think it's time to have "the talk" with him..... if u know what i'm talking about
2007-01-10 12:43:43 · answer #9 · answered by ♥stitch☺ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Steal them for my own personal use, it's not like he's gonna ask for them back
2007-01-10 12:42:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋