I let a gay friend of mine take very erotic nude pictures of me. I'm talking about 2 rolls of film! After having the pictures developed, I let my boyfriend (of less than a year) see them, and I thought about giving him some of them. He asked for some of them, but told him I had to see which ones I wanted him to have. I mostly trust him 99.9%, but then again you can't really trust anyone 100% most of the time. If you were in my situation, would you give some of the pictures to your current boyfriend?
2007-01-10 04:29:46 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Only if I were married
2007-01-10 04:33:50 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seeing as you let someone take nude pictures of you in the first place (and on film, rather than digital!), I would think that you aren't too square when it comes to other people seeing you naked. Allowing the pictures to be taken, some part of you must have realised that those pictures may eventually get out.
I really wouldn't worry too much. Whoopee. Some people might see you in your birthday suit. Most of those being people who should never be seen in theirs. They will probably be jealous. And you will get over it.
2007-01-10 04:43:27 · answer #2 · answered by IamBatman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. Even if you don't believe those photos/views of you should be reserved only for your future husband, know that once the photos are in someone else's hands, they become viral. You can't take them back, especially if the person puts them on the internet. Like they used to say on 'La Femme Nikita': trust no one! It's also a good thing to speculate into the future and not just think for the moment. If you're okay with that, then you'll know what to do.
2007-01-10 04:36:40 · answer #3 · answered by hopem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends... are you willing to take the risk of having your pictures circulating on the Internet? If it's not a big deal to you, then sure, let your bf have a couple of pics.
Just try to think of the worst case scenario and respond accordingly. I think the fact that you are even asking this question means that you may have some doubts and maybe should hold off until you feel 100% comfortable.
2007-01-10 04:39:48 · answer #4 · answered by Nitnit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do it, honey. I've been married for 12 years, I love him and I trust him with my life but I can't help but think that, were our marriage to dissolve in a less than civil manner that any nude photos he had of me (or I of him) would soon find their way to some site on the internet.
If you like the photos, by all means the two of you should enjoy them together...but I would urge you not to give him any.
Peace.
2007-01-10 04:45:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. That person that you love and trust could turn around and hurt you with the same pictures that were meant for his eyes only. Look at the Ms. America. Look at Vanessa William how (nude)pictures were leaked to the media and she had to give up her crown. It may not be the same situation for you but don't give it to him. I don't care how much you love someone that doesn't mean your going to be with him forever. He might get mad when you break up and post the pics of you on the Internet.
2007-01-10 04:37:33 · answer #6 · answered by Naomi B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough question. Even married couples get divorced, so advising you to wait until your relationship progresses isn't helpful.
Only you can know whether you're in a loving relationship, and whether your boyfriend is a **** or not. Even nice guys can be assholes when you dump them, so you need to think about his character and whether he's likely to go for vengeance if things don't work out.
I'm happy to say that back when I was having nude pics taken, there was NO internet to worry about.
2007-01-10 04:42:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you said, you can't trust anyone 100%. Don't do it, because If the 2 of you happen to break up on bad terms, you are truly ******. A friend of mine gave her long-term boyfriend nude pics of her, and when they broke up he threatened to make flyers out of her pics and post them all over town, including her neighborhood and work place. Luckily he never acted on it, but she was really freaked out.
2007-01-10 05:21:20 · answer #8 · answered by precious_jules81 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not!
If, for some reason, the two of you broke up, he would have these nude pictures of you. If the relationship ends badly, he may decide to be mean or spiteful and post them on the internet or give copies to his friends, etc...
2007-01-10 04:38:59 · answer #9 · answered by Wendy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, not if he is a "current" boyfriend. The term already suggests that you are quite young and that the relationship is not that stable. A lot of nude photos on the internet were given by naive girls to "current" boyfriends.
2007-01-10 04:35:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh God...DON'T DO IT!! First of all, you have been together less than a year and you two are definitely not married. I think it would be a mistake. Just think if you 2 were to get into a huge fight or break-up he could get pissed or vengeful and make copies to show to other people. Keep them to yourself.
2007-01-10 04:45:41 · answer #11 · answered by Brownie521 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋