My wife and I have always had a great sex life, but lately she doesn't want sex as often as she has in the past, Are kids have all moved out, and everything is going great in our relationship, our sex has gone for 3to4 times a week to maybe once or twice a month, I have depression and take meds that doesn't allow me to finish, but I still have needs, what can I do?
2007-01-10 04:13:33 · 19 answers · asked by looking for answers 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When we do make love I always make sure she is satisfied, I have been on these meds for 3yrs now, and Her sex drive just started To taper off over the last 6months
2007-01-10 04:41:27 · update #1
Whew that SUCKS! The kids are gone and her sex drive has diminished. There could be something to the medication you are taking and her sex drive (women need the full meal deal too).
Since the children have moved out I assume you both are near 40 or over. Maybe menopause has started for her.
A complex situation. Please contact your doctor about this. There's nothing about Yahoo answers that can really help you. We are a bunch of amateurs tossing out wild guesses. You need an expert.
2007-01-10 04:30:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some cheating husbands do not lose their sex drive for their wife. Some of these guys are just whore-bucks who can't keep it in their pants. I have never cheated and I never will. I can only speculate on why a cheating man would lose his sex drive for his wife. A man who is stimulated more by the woman he is cheating with would lose some interest in having sex with his wife. he may be more sexually stimulated by the idea of the risk involved with cheating and the thought of something new to screw.
2016-05-23 04:26:15 · answer #2 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Evidently this is all about you... Maybe the side effects of your medication dont allow her to enjoy love making as much either. Also, have you considered that Moms are always Moms and not having any kids at home may be making her sad (or depressed) too.
As for the frequency, most women would take great love making over quantity.
Talk to you Doctor about your completion issues and see if you can get that fixed before you accuse her of not wanting it.
2007-01-10 04:29:17 · answer #3 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1). you are on meds that don't allow you to climax? but you do satisfy her.
2). is your wife menopausal or perimenopausal? we women do have body changes that affect our libidos. have her go to the doctor, drive her and go with, and have the doctor run lab studies on her.
3) are you feeding her head? show her consideration and respect. you see, for me, if you don't feed my head, you ain't getting nothing in the bed. it's a simple thing to remember.
4) is she more tired than usual? or is she possibly depressed?
talk to her, softly, gently, calmly, and with an open heart. then, listen to her answer and take it into your heart. then cuddle with her. you both need it.
2007-01-13 15:49:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happens sometimes in a marriage, i would suggest you both go to the doctor, they have things for men and women that can help alot. And also maybe try and buy her a sexy nighty to wear, have candle light dinner, flowers and ky with sensation,, Are any of you taking medication, that can put a damper on the libido, (certain kinds). I hope you guys have good luck.
2007-01-10 04:24:48 · answer #5 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try talking to her... If she has lost her drive because you can't finish maybe you guys could bring some toys into the bedroom to satisfy both of you.
2007-01-10 04:22:50 · answer #6 · answered by jeter2 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She should see her doctor and specifically mention this... when women enter menopause their hormones change and they also lose more testosterone (we don't have a lot to begin with!) and that can lead to a lowered sex drive.
2007-01-10 05:16:55 · answer #7 · answered by Gen•X•er (I love zombies!) 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women go through many hormone changes throughout life. She could be going through menopause, depression, or even empty nest syndrome. Just be patient and love her through it.
2007-01-10 04:45:00 · answer #8 · answered by lady_blu_iz 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to talk to her about this. Let her know how you're feeling and ask her what you two can do to make it better for both of you.
2007-01-10 04:41:47 · answer #9 · answered by hotgramma 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
even thought things are going good maybe she is dishing it out some where else you say you dont finish maybe she found someone who will finish
2007-01-10 04:31:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋