I have been trying for 6 months now and I have a 5 and 9 year old. My husband is getting upset and pissed at me because I am not pregnant yet. Has anyone else had this happen? It is making me feel like crap! I have had 2 doses of Clomid and he has not been tested yet and gets defensive when I bring it up. Please, advice would be great! Adults only please, serious answers.
2007-01-10 03:53:58 · 6 answers · asked by nicsgirlus 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Your partner doesn't sound very supportive and I certainly would not want him to father my child!
2007-01-10 03:58:20 · answer #1 · answered by jilldaniel_wv 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Can i just ask if your 2 children are with your husband? If they are then i cant see a reason for you not to concieve as it has happened before. If they are not his children then maybe you should persist he gets checked out as it can often be the men, us women are not the only source of child producing! And it also happens much easier if your not trying so hard, i know that sounds easy but give it a try not to think about it as a job, have fun and who knows. Good luck hope everything works out for you both.
2007-01-10 12:07:54 · answer #2 · answered by sweetflyer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would imagine with all the added stress from your husband
is not making the situation any better. You both need to relax.
If he is not willing to get tested then tell him all efforts to TTC
are off. It's only fair for you both to be tested to make sure everything is alright.
Good luck.
2007-01-10 12:37:20 · answer #3 · answered by Ontario_Mom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
May be you body is unable to become pregnant again. He also maybe the issue. After you become pregnant your body doesn't always want to work the same. The birth of your two children may have affected your ability to become pregnant again. This happend to my sister.
2007-01-10 12:04:17 · answer #4 · answered by Brian 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stress is probably a huge factor!!! Your body will not allow to get pregnant if it is not ready!! And your partner needs to understand that it is not something you can control!! Try yoga!!! I find it very relaxing!
2007-01-10 12:04:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is him When is the last time he had his count checked. It takes two.
2007-01-10 11:58:33 · answer #6 · answered by Kogetsu 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋