My first (real) love was an incredibly beautiful German woman I met when I was a postgrad student in Berlin (I am Irish). I was head over heels in love with her, and, so she told me anyway, she felt the same.
But, everyone who knew her told me that she was someone who lied a lot because she liked to 'play the field', as they said back then. I chose to ignore that information.
Of course, inevitably, I discovered she had been with other men. When I challenged her about this she said, 'You're kidding yourself aren't you if you think I would marry you? I am going to marry a rich man for his money and then find lovers.' She said this as she laughed in my face.
She found her rich man ok. He is as unfaithful as her. They stay together for the money.
About a year ago, through other people I knew from those days in Berlin, she wrote an email to me - the first communication between us in all those years - saying that she was 'sad' that she and I had broken off communications, as she knew 'in [her] heart' I was 'the one.'
I wrote back and told her to go to Hell.
I am married for 25 years to a GORGEOUS Italian woman from Naples, and we have two wonderful kids.
2007-01-10 03:35:28
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answered by Superdog 7
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We were in contact off and on for ten maybe fifteen years.
I have the three boys (we talked back in teenage years about if we have three boys what would there names be lol!). Which he met before, but his wife is rather difficult person and my Mr. is not the kind to except me hanging out or talking with a person I had feelings for at one time.
Still think about him now and again, wondering how he is doing. I always thought I would get together with another Native American (he was half Indian) but never did. Wonder if they ever had kids and if they did if the kids are handsome like him?
Out of the past and back to reality which I am very happy with and would not change a thing! That relationship has been many moons ago lol!
2007-01-10 03:43:12
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answered by Anonymous
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My First Love already has a baby but has not gotten married, we parted our own way when we got to High School he ended up with this girl that supposedly he use to hate how ironic, I been with my mate for about a year now, but it's seen so akward that my ex's girlfriend wanted to be my friend over myspace, she layed me out as being her #1 friend in her list, I hated her too for taking away, but what can i say i love my hubby. No me and him are not in touch but i know about him thru her LOL
2007-01-10 03:34:53
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answered by JESS 2
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I married my first love 10 years ago. We were happy for 9 years but now he is a jerk and is mean to the kids so I'm trying to find a way out.
2007-01-10 03:32:38
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answered by emily 2
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This happened with my ex female chum and that i. I broke up along with her and then we've been aside for 2 years and then we ignored one yet another plenty we've been given returned mutually. notwithstanding i did no longer enjoy her and we broke up returned. Then I have been given engaged to somebody else and married and now I choose issues were diverse. My spouse is a superb woman however the magic I felt with my ex isn't there. that's been over ten years now and that i nonetheless pass over my ex notwithstanding that's too previous due as i'm no longer able to go away undergo to go away my son. i think of i will pass over her till I die.
2016-10-06 22:54:04
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answered by banowski 4
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Parted ways. We both married other people and the last time I saw him I ran into him at a high school awareness day where we were both speaking. We were very civil to one another, just didn't have much to say.
2007-01-10 03:32:00
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answered by Jennifer F 6
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We are still in touch, she got married later, has 3 kids now
2007-01-10 03:32:12
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answered by NoxecA 7
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I married him. We started "dateing" or what you could call it, when we were 14, all through HS and we got married when we were 21. We are now 30 and have 3 kids :)
2007-01-10 04:01:15
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answered by Me 6
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he broke up with me because of some gay reason which i later found out the real reason was because i wouldn't have sex with him.
but now he has a new girlfriend, she has a baby from a previous relationship but he treats it as his own and they're engaged.
and we are still in touch. i talk to him just about everyday at school and such.
2007-01-10 03:34:01
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answered by banana boat 2
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I can't find my first love. He wasn't my first boyfriend, of course, but I dated him in College. He had such a sweet heart and cared for me so much. I dumped him and regretted it. I am in a teriffic relationship now, and wouldn't change a thing, but I always wonder what College boy ended up doing with his life, and I hope he ended up with someone wonderful.
2007-01-10 03:33:21
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answered by True Dat 4
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