... to promise me that she hated apples too. She did, we were perfect for each other. Everything else between us was supper. She was everything I wanted and nothing that I didn't want, and I was everything she had hoped for and nothing that she had been afraid of.
Well, one day I came home and kissed her... on her breath I could taste apple. I nearly threw up... and then when I thought of how she had lied to me, I nearly threw up again.
Why did she lie to me? Is it true that once a lier, always a lier?
Why oh why did she lie to me?
2007-01-10 03:07:53 · 73 answers · asked by JRSK007 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
But she lied to me...
2007-01-10 03:36:02 · update #1
She lied to you because she loved & wanted to be with you. You made it absolutly clear that you did not like apples and you told her (Excuse me) asked her to promise you that she didn't like them either. When you begin a relationship with someone and the two of you fall in love and become committed to oneanother you are suppose to accept them for the true person that they are. It sounds to me like she was more then willing to accept you for whom you are but she had had doubts about you accepting her for whom she truly is so she lied to make you happy. I agree it was wrong for her to lie to you but you had made it clear that just because you don't like apples then she shouldn't either. So to make you happy she lied to you. I'm sorry to here that you are that selfish and that you will let a stupid little thing like this ruin what the two of you have. Especially since she did it out of love for you.I don't see why this is a problem for you anyway. But if it is then I believe that you are the one that has the problem, and if you are going to expect the person that you get involved with to give up what they like because you don't like it then you are going to be a very lonely man! you have to accept her for who she is, you are not suppose to expect her to change her true self for you! Because you most certainly wouldn't change for her! You are being completely selfish!!!!!!
You should be ashamed of yourself!
2007-01-16 04:06:03 · answer #1 · answered by bigred 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you, Eve and apple. You're clearly overreacted. If you're allergic to apple I could understand but you're not. You want your new friend to hate apples? I mean huh?! She have had apples all her life and all of a sudden you want her to hate apples? Have you ever heard of white lies? She probably did that coz she likes you and want to be with you. Yes, yes she lied but it's just an apple and you're not life threaten of anything. No, it's not true once a lier always a lier. People can change, maybe one day you'll like apples too. Did apples done anything to you? Man good luck holding on to her
2007-01-17 04:25:19 · answer #2 · answered by marynmm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she wants to be more than your friend and is trying to be someone she thinks you would want and in the process, she made a mistake by lying to you. I know you feel betrayed, but she lied to you because she wants to be more than a friend. Othe wise, why would she care if you knew that she liked apples? No real reason to, unless she has hidden motives. She is big on you and scared her apple habit would cause problems...... sounds funny, but it's true !
2007-01-17 00:12:01 · answer #3 · answered by cpaige517 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know alot of people are reading this and thinking like myself, whats the big deal if she likes Apples, jeesh you are two different people, with different likes ,honestly its not worth breaking up over but... the fact she lied to you about it is hurtfull to you, that I understand,but a relationship is a two way street, you are trying to Control her appetite now and thats NOT a good thing. if it is was bad for her health, that would be another thing, but actually apples are good for you. If it bothers you, ask her to simply not eat them around you, but do not be so controlling, for God sake its an apple...
2007-01-17 06:58:18 · answer #4 · answered by donna_honeycutt47 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm, I can't believe I just read that. Good for her, apples are good for you and healthy, I don't think this girl needs you around. Get over it. If that's what you would call a liar then people can lie to me every day.
2007-01-17 09:09:15 · answer #5 · answered by blue2blnde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What in the world did you make your friend promise you that she would hate apples for? That was dumb. Obviously she likes apples, and just said that so she wouldn't get you mad or hurt by it. How would you like it if she made you promise to like apples?! Geez, I would have done the same thing!
2007-01-17 06:27:59 · answer #6 · answered by Xena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your apple analogy consitutes a way bigger deal than what you're making it out to be ... you sure did minimalize it. Once a liar, always a liar dear. People change but that takes YEARS. If she lied about something small ... perhaps it isn't worth getting so worked up over ... if its onthe bigger scale ... like she cheated or she blew the rent money on rodeo drive ... then you need to keep it pushin ... she's crazy!
2007-01-15 09:30:01 · answer #7 · answered by msdrdn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hi,
you need help. you can not make some one like or dislike anything. okay you don't like apples, so what she does. what the big deal. just don't kiss her when she has just eating an apple. if the two of you are meant for each other you should be able to work it out.
2007-01-17 04:35:25 · answer #8 · answered by Sonya K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she promised you she hated apples because she wanted to be your freind that badly.... if you kissed her on the mouth are you sure you are just friends? It's just a silly bit of information that doesn't mean anything. Don't let it ruin a wonderful freindship.
2007-01-17 09:09:06 · answer #9 · answered by Skippy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably lied to you because hating apples is a stupid thing to be so anal about, forget about be mad over. There are such larger battles. If this is your only one, be thankful. If you are willing to leave her over liking apples, your relationship is going to end anyway and you need some serious help.
2007-01-16 05:10:11 · answer #10 · answered by cadjsm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋