2007-01-10 02:55:22 · 13 answers · asked by adorable 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Well, I had this thing about not making the first move. So my now husband came over to my dorm room, and I was actually kind of sick, so I told him I was just going to go to bed. I couldn't fall asleep so I went out to the lobby anyway. And it was crowded with several of my friends. Finally it cleared out about an hour later (I think everyone but me knew Jeff was going to ask me out). Anyway, we just sat there. Finally he said, "Uh, you know I like you right." I laughed and said I guessed so. 30 minutes later he finally asked me out after like half a year of having a little crush on me (he dated this horrible chick who just used him, because she asked him out, and he wasn't sure I liked him). He's such a dork! lol*
So in answer to your question it's pretty darn hard to get the guts to ask your crush out sometimes.
2007-01-10 03:03:44 · answer #1 · answered by Ashley S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
making the first move is very hard, because we are always afraid that the person might not like us or that they could possibly reject us, but for most of us we can sense if a person likes us or not . Someone has to make the move so why not let it be you,if you dont do it you will never know, life is to short so go for it and good luck.
2007-01-10 11:10:05 · answer #2 · answered by shorty123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what you are referring to. Dating or getting a job done. If it is a job that needs done it is always the getting started that's hard then the time flies. If dating make a gentle move and watch facial and body movements to know if you should proceed. Learn to read people. Mmm
2007-01-10 11:05:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it would all depend on the situation and the circumstances around it... I mean if you're drunk it's not very hard or if you're really comfortable with the person it's not too hard but sometimes it can be extremely difficult... can make you really nervous, anxious...
2007-01-10 11:02:13 · answer #4 · answered by Wiked 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know ..I've never made the first move ...It shouldnt be that hard I guess!
2007-01-10 11:00:18 · answer #5 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not hard... I made the 1st move on my bf... And Im so glad I did :)
2007-01-10 10:58:32 · answer #6 · answered by Cubanita 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not hard at all.
2007-01-10 11:00:22 · answer #7 · answered by JediMaster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me being a girl it's not so much hard as it is akward. . . .
2007-01-10 11:01:18 · answer #8 · answered by Love United 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As for myself. Very!
2007-01-10 11:00:20 · answer #9 · answered by kayboff 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, I've done it. I was just sure that i wouldn't be rejected. It worked.
2007-01-10 11:03:22 · answer #10 · answered by ∞ Mixed § Peanuts ∞ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋