i found a card inside his car saying what a good freind you are,and i ask him about it and all he said it dont belongs to you so dont touch ,and he said it dont belong to me also . so i said said why your name is on it , no answer . he just laugh and sed i'm not answering you .
2007-01-10 02:52:06 · 16 answers · asked by zwinky25 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If I thought my husband was cheating, I would determine if he actually was cheating. If it was true, I would leave him. He could have all of the women he wanted, but I wouldn't be one of them.
The fact that he laughed and wouldn't tell you is quite telling. It sounds like he is hiding things from you. That does not make for a happy, fulfilling marriage.
Best luck and take care.
2007-01-10 03:03:53 · answer #1 · answered by Abby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let this go for now but be on the look out in the future. This may be nothing. Just don't push it to far till you have more than the card. Also you can give him some time and ask again. Allot of people get a little touchy if you ask to many questions all at once.
Good luck
2007-01-10 11:05:09 · answer #2 · answered by Krazee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he just laughed and said that he wasnt answering you then that means something...wether it means hes cheating or it means that he thinks you are overreacting...The card did say friend on it though...and while some people may disagree and man can be JUST friends with a woman so I dont know...just keep your eyes and ears open...and if anything else turns up suggesting that he IS cheating then that is when you confront him....
2007-01-10 11:10:05 · answer #3 · answered by Pretty Princess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You dont trust him.......thats the bottem line. If you did you would not be asking yahoo for answers. He doesnt have to explain every little thing to you, but if you really did suspect him of something, just go ahead and hire a private investigator and they will do your dirty work for you. You could be a little diabolical and test your husband by having a girl friend your husband does not know about come on to him and see how he reacts. Happy hunting.
2007-01-10 11:17:11 · answer #4 · answered by "the Otter" 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well it started what a good friend he was not a lover. The fact that he wants to keep it secrective could suggest an affair in the making or a friendship that he know you wouldnt approve of. Sit his down and express yourself and if he clams up again..you need to make some decisions or get some proof on your own.
2007-01-10 11:05:27 · answer #5 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He is being evasive for a reason, I would say. Not only is he telling you to stay out of his business, but he lied about who the card belonged to. I would definitely be more watchful of what he is doing when he is not home.
2007-01-10 10:59:32 · answer #6 · answered by ksueditz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he isn't being honest with u, tells u not to touch it, tries to lie out of it, as if u can't read, laughs at u, as my ex did me, when he had no excuse and wouldn't be upfront. he is not going to answer u, it would incriminate him, but what is worse is his total disrespect of u, and he insults your intelligence as if u were stupid. don't let him get by with it, confront him give him ultimatums and if he refuses to act like a normal husband, u have to divorce him, so get a plan going be ready to move on and leave him.
2007-01-10 11:08:28 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like he's hiding something more serious than being a good friend to someone. he also sounds like a jerk. if i found something like that my husband had better explain! hire a private detective if you can, or look through his cell phone records, email, whatever. or just dump him on the curb.
if my husband cheated he'd be history!
2007-01-10 10:59:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with this link for tips. The internet is full of sites that give warning tips and what to look for. Most of them are interlinked and they helped me a lot in proving my spouse was cheating.
http://mountainhighpub.com/cheatingspecialreport.html
2007-01-10 11:58:48 · answer #9 · answered by BEEN THERE 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can't get a straight answer out of him tell him that you are leaving. If he still doesnt come clean dump him and move on. You deserve someone that is going to be honest with you.
2007-01-10 10:58:32 · answer #10 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋