My husband had an affair with his brothers wife(SLUT).
The brother and wife (SLUT) or divorce.
The SLUT is still calling my husband, and mymy husband returns her calls.
I'm made at my husband most of the time, but I do get over it quickly.
Their has been changes we both had made along the way.
I do stand up for my self and put my foot down on the phone calls.
We have 2 half grown childran a girl and a boy.
I have tryed to improve our sex life.
We do things together, out to eat, riding, movie, family getherings.
We don't kiss each other any more.
No other women will ever come between us.
2007-01-10 02:45:54 · 14 answers · asked by tx1sexy_bitch 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
but can your husband not get a life and decide you or her? no so you need to stand up for yourself and leave. you need to make a choice.
2007-01-10 02:50:13 · answer #1 · answered by swimmyfishy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Another woman has already come between you two. Not only did he show that he is a jerk by cheating on you, but he shows he has no loyalty by cheating with his brothers wife. On top of that he continues to take calls from her. If he really wanted to make the marriage work he would have cut ties with her and put his all into the marriage and family that he has. You can't be putting your foot down on the calls to much if he is still returning her calls, plus this can't be a very healthy environment for your children. I think you may be the only one fighting to save this marriage. From what I read...he's already gone. I hope you make the right decision for you and your kids, good luck and god bless
2007-01-10 10:54:28 · answer #2 · answered by lonestarlady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're on the right path, at least you're trying, but don't tell him she called. And hang up on her when she does. Your husband needs to make it stop. He needs to do the right thing, and end it and that's it. No way, i'd leave him and take it all with me, just becausehe's such a jerk. The reason he does it is because he can, and he knows you won't leave, or do anything about it. Again HE is the one that needs to stop it, he shouldn't be returning her calls, and he shouldn't be talking to her, he should tell her it's done and that's it. A friendship between them is not possible considering the situation.
2007-01-10 11:27:42 · answer #3 · answered by Brandnewshoes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not all up to u to make the marriage better, u had nothing to do with what he chose to do. at some point he will have to discourage this woman from calling, as long as she continues to call, it means he still has a connection to her. u are doing all of the right things, but how do u know for sure this other woman won't come between u again? if he returns her calls, this means he is not ready to severe ties with her, and maybe u need to put a stop to her calling your house, change your pH number, but know that if she really wants to get in touch she will, seems neither of them have any respect for u.
2007-01-10 11:00:43 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but this woman has already came between u and you husband. If he is still talking to her then the affair is still going on. Wake up and open your eyes. U don't diserve this. U gave birth to his children and this is how he shows them he loves them by cheating on their mom, especially with his brothers wife. In my oppinion do u want some man doing your daughter this way? If not then divorce this jerk. U and your childred diserve better. My ex did me the same way and no matter what I did it still ended up in divorce, and guess who got hurt the worst. The kids. If u love your kids and yourself then end it now before it gets really bad, and believe me it will, and u and the kids will hate him for it.
2007-01-10 11:08:31 · answer #5 · answered by Shery W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to put it like this but, if no other women will come become between you and your husband, why is he returning her calls?
You should not have to do anything to improve the relationship, it is all on him.
2007-01-10 10:52:30 · answer #6 · answered by Floss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He returns her calls? Thats not all he is returning. Hate to tell you but you're not exactly Mrs. Obvious. The guy is a bum and you are too insecure to see it.
2007-01-10 10:51:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be extra nice to him and tell him you love him. He probably feels terrible about cheating on you. All men are weak and can be suduced easily, its not his fault. And get him a playstation 3
2007-01-10 11:01:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Forgivness or it'll never be better.
2. If he is still returning her calls then tell him to call her from his new home.
2007-01-10 11:00:40 · answer #9 · answered by coffeemate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW!
HERE'S YOUR ANSWER!
Set up a date for your husband and his brother to take each of you out for "a ride" and figure out which old klunker he wants to take home and park in the garage.
2007-01-12 01:35:19 · answer #10 · answered by alljuanyou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋