i am in a home where my aunts boy friend likes to make fun of me call me stupid ***** and try to hit me he also thinks he can do anything he wants to my dog he wont leave me alone i do not feel save in the house so how can i get out with out my aunt getting mad at me? or never wanting to talk to me again
2007-01-10 02:25:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
as for my aunt she does not want to loose this guy she has not had a real boy friend in like a year so she is totally on his side but i have a problem of getting my stuff out of her house she is addited to drugs and will do anything to be with him
2007-01-10 02:40:02 · update #1
I don't know how old you are but GET OUT! If you're in school, please go to your counselor and let him/her know what's going on. Many towns have shelters for youths and runaways. There is help out there for you. Perhaps you should appeal to another family member. Stay at a friend's house temporarily. Anything, just don't stay with this man any longer. Of course you're concerned about your relationship with your aunt, but that's secondary to your and your pet's safety. Once you have left, you can call her or write to her and let her know why you have left. She might kick the guy to the curb, or she might take his side. Either way, you need to look out for you and your dog. Good luck and remember there is help if you have the courage to look for it.
2007-01-10 02:34:02 · answer #1 · answered by oj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to your aunt & tell her your concerns. He sounds like a bully and that is just not acceptable. Tell her that if she doesn't get him to stop, you are going to have to find another place to live. You have to look out for your own safety and peace of mind & not worry about what your aunt thinks.
My brother-in-law used to do stuff to me, like fill the bathtub & throw me in (clothes and all) & hold me under because he knew I was afraid of water. The good thing is I didn't live with him & learned to visit my sister when he wasn't home.
You may want to consider your dog as well. Abused dogs turn mean.
Good luck
2007-01-10 02:39:10 · answer #2 · answered by Jane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u hav all the rites to get urself protected frm unwanted attention n gestures. confide in ur aunt or any older person related to u n ur aunt n tell dat guy straight away dat u mind his attention n u wud talk to ur aunt. best of luck
2007-01-10 02:38:25 · answer #3 · answered by UZMA S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should tell your teacher or a friends parents, don't worry about your aunt getting mad, either she's scared of him or doesn't care
2007-01-10 02:34:11 · answer #4 · answered by Tiny little hot one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋