Never even considered cheating. Nothing beyond a glance. Don't go to strip clubs and those kinds of places. An occasional glance is ok, but downright ogling is rude (but not cheating by any means). For those of you who are truly happy with your wives (don't wish they would be hotter, better in bed, better cooks, etc.). What keeps you interested?
2007-01-10 02:15:49 · 13 answers · asked by Lady in Red 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she's my best friend!!!!!!!
2007-01-10 02:20:12 · answer #1 · answered by lmkmc05 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I am very faithful but that does not keep me from looking at other women. An occasional trip to a strip club is also not cheating. Quit being so insecure.
What keeps me interested is; she lets me be myself, she is my best friend, we do things together, she has ALL the qualities I was looking for in a woman. I don't need to or want to go out "looking" for someone else because she takes care of me sexually. She's a great cook, a wonderful mother...like I said before, she is everything I was looking for in a woman.
2007-01-10 02:30:12 · answer #2 · answered by mvas800 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love my wife with all of my heart!! She is my life. She is sweet and kind and she is fun to be with. I enjoy every minute that I have with her. My wife is my best friend, my lover, my confidant and my world.
When I see other beautiful women, I think of my wife. That is the difference between a man who is committed to his wife and one that is not. If a guy sees another woman and does not think of his wife, he is bound to go wrong. The same goes for married women.
On the other hand, would I like it if she were better in bed, yes I would. She is not the best at love making, but she shows me her love and that is what counts.
My wife used to be thin but medicine has made her gain weight. It is not her fault though and she is trying to lose the weight. She still looks beautiful to me.
So can I say that she is perfect in every way, no. Can I say that she is perfect for me, yes.
Take care,
Troy
2007-01-10 02:33:31 · answer #3 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
from personal experience I can tell you that the thing that will always keep me steady on this behavior are:
-She always listens.
-She not critical at me, but rather advises me on decision making and conforts me whenever I make a questionable decision (She recognizes mi original intentions and therefore is not critical)
-Sex is a game. We play and enjoy, both. No tabooes, no bad mood or attitud when call upon.
-Her honesty. The lest I could do is be as honest or faithful.
-Always welcome me home (no matter what fuzz may come afterwards).
-She's not self-centered but rather family centered.
-Her good mood.
All of these features make me see my "best friend" in her, and hence, I always see a beautiful lady beside me. That's why she shall always be beautiful and so very hot to my eyes...
2007-01-10 02:38:36 · answer #4 · answered by etherberg 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe what keeps me interested after 20 yrs of marriage--I am simply in love with my wife. I think it is a choice I make to love her and I also believe personal values such as keeping my vows have played a part in this. I love who she is and love how we have been growing together. I also believe that even before you get married that you should be 100% sure.
2007-01-10 02:24:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Its not the look or the habits or any thing else which keeps you apart from cheating, what control me is my character, as i know if i will play with the dark black color, i will definately get a mark of it. So i strictly avoid myself not to encourage/participate in any such activities.Prevention is better than cure.
2007-01-10 02:24:14 · answer #6 · answered by yjph 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
True love (which has nothing to do with passion) that developes over the years becomes only stronger with time, like a good brandy. Yes, it helps when we are hot in bed and when there is good food on the table. Neverthtless, these are only fruits of real love.
2007-01-10 02:21:15 · answer #7 · answered by Kalistrat 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
She is my best friend and I know that I can trust her. As an otherwise depressed person, she makes me happy so I've dedicated my life to doing the same for her.
2007-01-10 02:26:51 · answer #8 · answered by Ritz Grimarren 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my wife is everything to me. it is more than just sex and looks. my wife is my best friend, everything i would ever want in a woman. i often tell her that she doesnt need to change because i married her the way she is. to me, my wife is the perfect woman and there isnt a woman out there that can compare to her. i really love her and that is why i stay interested in my wife
2007-01-10 02:41:45 · answer #9 · answered by young grown man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She inspires me; is always there for me; encourages me;
cares for me; talks to me; all of these things and more
is what makes me want to never leave her as it's very
hard to find women now-adays that are totally committed
and unconditionally.
2007-01-10 20:18:40 · answer #10 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is as exciteing today as the day we got married--over 12 years ago--never a dull moment
2007-01-10 02:24:32 · answer #11 · answered by mikeh_frog 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋